I really have a strong feeling that he feels the same, he's just a really nice guy. Would that be selfish of me if I did tell him? because honestly I can't hold it in any longer.
2006-06-07 21:53:09 · 18 answers · asked by abc 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Are you sure he feels the same way? If not leave the man alone. If he loved you don't you think he would be with you. Are you lusting after him because he will be off the market? Find someone else and you just might find happiness. Don't mess up other peoples lives because you want a roll in the hay
2006-06-07 23:21:35 · answer #1 · answered by shell-b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When I read your Q, I wondered immediately how long you've know him, and what the original circumstances were (ie were you ever involved with him on any level)
I don't think it would be O.K. for you to intervene in this at all; he's OBVIOUSLY made his CHOICE; and that means "hands off" - and deep down, you know this. You're just questioning your own answer!
Meanwhile, grow with this; and move on. Show how mature you can really be!
Good luck with your life
2006-06-08 04:59:30 · answer #2 · answered by Tash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are a 100% that he feels the same ... then go for it.
but in my opinion you should not tell him anything because he is engaged, ready to get marry ( so it means he is deeply in love , right? ) you should try to let the feeling go. sorry but i think you waited too long to express your feelings towards him.
ps. if he didn't tell you his feelings (in a romantic way) before then there is nothing to do.
2006-06-08 05:02:40 · answer #3 · answered by Fatima 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out how he feels about his fiance.if he loves his fiance then back out. if he doesnt then tell him that he shouldnt marry someone he doesnt love. if he then breaks off his engagement then you tell him about your feelings for him..but but wait until he breaks off the engagement by himself. or else he and the rest of the world will hold you responsible for breaking off a wedding.
2006-06-08 05:01:16 · answer #4 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're free to tell him all you want, just don't expect him to drop everything for you... or anything for the matter. Expecting that WOULD be selfish.
Besides, say he does feel the same way about you, and ditches his fiance... what do you think that says about his character?
2006-06-08 04:57:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better you tell him now than wait till he is married for it will be too late then.Telll him now and be ready to be either rejected or accepted.then you can move on with your life at peace.besides wouldnt it be better to tell him now than make a scene at the wedding.
2006-06-08 05:32:17 · answer #6 · answered by pinkpanther 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if you would be feeling this way if he were still available. Maybe the fact that you may have "missed your chance" is the attraction. Everyone looks better once they find someone else.
2006-06-08 05:01:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be kind of selfish, but I think you should tell him. If you don't, you might regret it for the rest of your life.
2006-06-08 04:55:35 · answer #8 · answered by englishnut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love some1..... go and tell him.... he is engaged... not married yet... hif he feels same 4 u then it can change ur life...
yes.. if he is married.. it wud not b good to do tht
there is still chance girl
go ahead.... best if luck......
2006-06-08 04:58:31 · answer #9 · answered by hitz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its never to late to spill your guts. think of it this way . should you tell him and bear the consequences or not tell him and wonder about it forever till it drives you mad?
2006-06-08 04:56:30 · answer #10 · answered by Amber M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋