How do you move on when the one thing that helped you move on is gone?

Question

My best friend/hero/grandfather passed away about 2 years ago and he was my everything. Now that he is gone I don't find a point in life anymore. I want him back soooooo much, but I can't have him. So how do I find a way to live life to its fullest when the one thing that helped me do that is gone?

Answer 1

do everything that you think will make him happy and proud. in decision making, think of what he might be telling you as an advise.. as if he was still alive. and remember, he wants you to be happy, for sure. gudluck.

Answer 2

I'm sorry for your loss. I am also very close to my Grandmother but I fortunately have her with me but fear the day she has to leave me. I love her so much. She is pretty much the only person on this planet that really understands me. I think I can empathize with how you must feel.
It is OK to mourn the death of your Grandfather but you have to realize it won't bring him back physically. He is not here physically anymore but what about all of the things he taught you, the memories you shared. They are still very much alive so in a way your Grandfather lives on and will always live on. You will now share with the world what he has taught you. It is time you live for yourself. I am sure he would want you to do that instead of being sad for this long over his passing. You are a strong person you just need to have more faith in yourself.

Answer 3

Just remember him how he was when he was alive, and he'd say 'you can still live life to the fullest'. He would want it that way.

Answer 4

Prayers dear. Always think that where ever your grandfather is, he still wish for the best for you- and to do that you must move on without him beside you.

Answer 5

A good strong vodka is the answer to most of my problems