2006-06-07 21:20:31 · 26 answers · asked by CuteBrunette 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i am 15 n my bf wants to start having sex, what do i do????
2006-06-08 00:52:00 · update #1
It doesn’t matter what your boyfriend wants, it is all about you. It is your body, and therefore your choice! If you don’t think that you are ready to begin having sex, then you shouldn’t. After two years of being with this person, he should respect your wishes. If he doesn’t, then you not only shouldn’t be having sex with him, you shouldn’t be in a relationship with him either. Never let anyone pressure you into doing anything that you don’t want to do! If he truly cares about you, he will wait for as long as you need him to, or be a man and let you know that he cant wait any longer and needs to move on, without trying to pressure you into something that you so obviously aren’t ready for!
Good luck!
2006-06-07 21:25:33 · answer #1 · answered by Educated and Enlightened 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason to have sex should not be that he/she wants to but rather that you both want to and are of a reasonable age to do so!
When is that reasonable age? It's really different for everyone but you should meet one criteria.....that should you become pregnant you are mature enough to live with those consequences, and financially stable enough to be able to support the child. Bear in mind the it makes no difference if you are male or female.... you may well end up being the only one to bear the financial load....you can't be positive that the other party will always be there or be responsible enough to aid in raising the child even if they are there. Don't make a child suffer the consequences of your poor decision!
2006-06-08 04:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by old dude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you are under 18 then you should ask your Father what to do. But if you are 18 and older then he doesn't need you to have sex with you because believe me he's having sex with someone else already. 2 years is way to long to wait for a piece of azz.
2006-06-08 04:25:05 · answer #3 · answered by TheUrbanIntellectual 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you know that more than 40% of young women are force into sex because of peer preassure like they bf would leave them or get angry if they dont agree. and it is the cause of most teen age pregnancy & a drastic change in your life not to mention, if you dont feel that you ought to do then dont give in if he cant see you or love you because you respect yourself then he's no good for you anyway because most probably once he got what he wants he would look for another girl.
2006-06-08 04:24:47 · answer #4 · answered by Dave B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets see...if he really loves u he wont press the subject n make u feel uncomfortable,he'll wait till ur ready BUT if hes been buggin fo awhile then he probably juss wants u in bed...havin sex is lik a connection, dont give it away 2 dah wrong man.
2006-06-08 04:35:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to and are ready to go for it but be SMART! Use a condom! If you're not ready tell him, if he loves you he'll wait more than 3 days to bring it up again.
2006-06-08 04:24:08 · answer #6 · answered by FunnyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 years and you didn't do any thing. This is completely wrong. Love is incomplete without sex.
2006-06-08 04:26:36 · answer #7 · answered by khanismine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First ask your mom to get you on BIRTH CONTROL.. Do not skip this part. Second make sure he promises to hang around and support you and the baby you are about to make...3 rd Make sure that it what you want to do, if not then don't do it!
2006-06-08 04:26:17 · answer #8 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think you're ready for it, don't hesitate. if you're not, tell him u need more time. if the 2 years and you mean anything to him, he'll understand and wait. but whatever u do - DO NOT do it if you're not prepared to. the fact that u asked this question shows ur not ready, so just tell him that.
2006-06-08 04:22:56 · answer #9 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your talking about having a baby then i dont know how old are you??
if ur just gonna have sex & ur gonna use protection then u should..
i would have done it like less than a year ago
2006-06-08 04:24:28 · answer #10 · answered by 50 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋