2006-06-07 20:41:40 · 10 answers · asked by ans 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hi never look into negative things, improve his positiveness. no point in blaming.
2006-06-15 18:39:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You must decide what is the purpose of your marriage and see if your marriage satisfies that purpose sufficiently for you to 'overlook' the lack of suitability between you and your partner. I would say in the majority of cases, living like this come back to haunt both partners, as resentment and distance builds between both. Most likely, when there are children involved, parents may decide to stay married for the kid's sake, but agree to live 'separate' lives - though I would not suggest this, sometimes due to the financial and individual needs of the family, it is sometimes necessary. If you don't like your partner enough to be his/her friend, and to spend time together, it will be very difficult to live a happily married life. I think the only way this can work is when the two people like each other, can be friends, but have fallen 'out of love' then perhaps stability, religion, economics (those other purposes of marriage) may override lack of suitability.
2006-06-07 20:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by Randa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you are going to get answers to this is by asking you why did you marry your partner? Sorry I'm confused more details ok; like why not suitable
2006-06-07 20:46:41 · answer #3 · answered by askmeguru21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean not suitable? If you chose to marry your partner then guess what you need to seek help or counseling then so that they do become suitable to you and your needs... Are you suitable for your spouse?
2006-06-08 00:44:51 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if not suitable then why make the commitment til death do you part!!! marriage is not something that people should up and do for the fun of it. I dont think that people realize that they are not the only ones that get hurt. Think of the family on her side and on your side. You can not make your self happy if you are not happy.... it just will not work!!!!!!!!!! good luck
2006-06-07 20:50:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never expect your partner to do things which you really expect.
2006-06-07 22:35:47 · answer #6 · answered by Shabeer A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wont work this i know for a fact you wont be happy because you both have different outlooks in life as well as you stated there is no love in this marrage. ?
2006-06-07 22:37:14 · answer #7 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It won't work if you two aren't suited. Get a divorce and find someone who's perfect for you.
2006-06-08 00:46:39 · answer #8 · answered by smurfette_au2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know that he is not suitable for you than there really isnt a relatioship
2006-06-15 08:59:41 · answer #9 · answered by my_lttle_devil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce her and find a new wife, cause it wont work
2006-06-07 20:45:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋