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i hate myself and sometimes i want to kill myself...want should i do? be happy wif my frend or...?

2006-06-07 20:18:22 · 26 answers · asked by Summer 2 in Family & Relationships Friends

but i don't think people love me...

2006-06-07 20:30:19 · update #1

26 answers

dont be silly...really find some time to take stock. what about your family? friends? what do you like doing? any hobbies? do you have a job? there's plenty to live for, you only get one chance, one life. sometimes its tough, but you dont know whats around the corner. be happy. xxxxx

2006-06-07 20:21:51 · answer #1 · answered by lovin_me2day 3 · 0 0

Life is an opportunity not to be wasted but exploited. For good or bad is a story that we all live to tell. Let life take its course and try steering it in the right direction. If it works out well, thank God. Otherwise take it like a sportman do.
If you dare take your life, then you have failed and will live forever in damnation and God will never listen to your complain.
Life is a race course, you do not give up until you win it. You may not be the first in line, but smiling at it all is worht it. At least thanking God for the oportunity to be selected and given the chances to run a course.
It an unforgiveable crime to take ones life. So do not. Tomorrow is bright and would be a refuttal of today pain. Wait thru it and you shall have a cause to smile and love then.
You are a loveable person, perhaps you are not acknowledging those who do love you. You are created to be loved and you too are to love someone. Search them out. Love is relative and at times the people we give this to may not really worth them. Do not be disappointed. Todays failure is a prep towards a better winning days tomorrow, Gold go into the fire to come out brighter and good and its price are worth more and more.
Be a friend? Source(s) mikailatoll@yahoo.co.uk

2006-06-08 05:47:26 · answer #2 · answered by mikail 3 · 0 0

This friend that you're talking about who is it and what did the friend do? If it's that bad try and talk to the friend or otherwise just stay away from the friend it doesn't sound like he/she is a genuine friend. You said you want to kill yourself? Since when has suicide ever been an answer? And about you hating yourself don't worry it happens to all of us when we make mistakes from time to time and when we feel really foolish. I hope you will reconsider the killing yourself part. Talk to someone you feel comfortable with and try doing something you totally love and before you know it your self confidence will be back and suicide will be a thing of the past.

2006-06-08 08:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by sweetdivine 4 · 0 0

You could be depressed ... why else would you want to end your life? I think you should find a psychiatrist and go for a visit and also get a therapist. In the meantime, work on replacing your negative thoughts with positive ones. When a negative thought comes into your head, you should ask yourself "what's something more positive I can say to myself that I believe?" You may even want to sit down with a pen and paper and write a list of positive reassuring statements that you can believe in, so you'll have something to say to yourself when you have those negative thoughts.

If you really think you're suicidal and are having thoughts of hurting yourself then you may need more immediate attention. There are suicide hotlines that you can call for help or if you begin seeing a psychiatrist and or therapist in the meantime they are all places you can call. There's a list of suicide hotlines here: http://suicidehotlines.com/ Hope that helps!

2006-06-08 03:26:11 · answer #4 · answered by Kev 5 · 0 0

Seek some professional help. Speak to a trusted friend or family member or teacher (you don't say how old you are sorry) or even your doctor, they can point you in the right direction, perhaps suggest a support group or medication. Depression is not a bad thing, it's a sickness that can be treated very successfully, don't give up.

2006-06-08 05:27:51 · answer #5 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0 0

Get some frnds along for a sweet long understanding talk that'll hepl u better. Enjoy the human life its really very beautiful. Dont worry about death. Be a little patient death will come on its own. Till then ejoy the joys and sorrows of life.

2006-06-08 03:31:21 · answer #6 · answered by greatbuddy 2 · 0 0

You should do something that can help you to chill like listening to music or something. Remember that everyone in this world feels down sometimes. Comitting suicide can NEVER solve anything. It'll only make things much much worse, trust me! I don't know about you but I always find laughters when I'm with my friends. They cheer me up when I feel down. The same thing goes with my family but I must say that I'm more of a friend-person. Just don't do something drastic & irrational, okay? Try to smile & laugh always - fake it if you must.

2006-06-08 03:36:35 · answer #7 · answered by prisC 2 · 0 0

Are you a murderer of a paedophile, do you take great pleasure in hurting small furry animals? Do you ridicule those less fortunate than yourself or mug old ladies in the street? if the answer is NO to all these questions then your all right by me. Stop giving yourself such a hard time & start thinking about all the things that are good about yourself! If the answer is YES then you deserve to feel this way!

2006-06-14 09:04:31 · answer #8 · answered by gp200dawn 2 · 0 0

Summer, life can never be that bad! Why is it you hate yourself?
I don't hate you. You probably have not even come close to living life for its fullest. Husband, Kids, friends, Family, and pets. They all love you no matter what. Some people have diffent ways of swong it, thats all.

2006-06-08 03:25:52 · answer #9 · answered by race21 3 · 0 0

I guarantee you that you have some beautiful qualities, even if you are oblivious to them at the moment.
Focus on finding these, and ask yourself how you can share these with others, so as to make their lives more beautiful, and your own more rewarding.
There are thousands of people on the planet who would find their lives enriched by you, and by your capacity to feel so deeply, and to express yourself so honestly.
Go find them.
Best of luck.

2006-06-08 03:42:29 · answer #10 · answered by emeraldisle2222 5 · 0 0

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