I'd like to know your opinion on the following situation which is a memory of the past only. I was depressed, and hardly had any friends as constantly everyone would want to fix me and left me more broken. Then a friend came along, who offered to listen and be there and just be friends. However, in the end, it turend out he turned me down. Never replying to emails I had sent while feeling at my worst. Now I am ok, and there he is still, complaining that I emailed too much. I appologized of course, but felt more worthless than a piece of oxidated metal lying on the backyard. Should I keep him, or diss him?
2006-06-07 19:30:25 · 3 answers · asked by geniusflightnurse 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hard to be friends with someone who will not share their interiors. It is in being open and disclosing with others that the bonds of trust and friendship strengthen. Not replying to emails, saying that you sent too many (especially if they were personal ones) sounds pretty small-minded and needy to me.
I think that friendship and communication are possible only between equals. It sounds to me like he was treating you not like an equal but like something like a dependent, a child. In that case, and remember we do not know your relationship with this guy that well, I would say to keep your distance.
Guys are funny (not laughable, but strange) in the United States. They grow up very late, if they grow up at all. They are sort of like dogs: wolves that do not mature. BTW, did you know that? Wolves have almost the same genes, dogs are the permanent juvenile form, though. Anyway, guys remain little boys: needy, whiney, and very self-centered. Your former friend seems like that is his case.
Live well and show him that he made a great mistake in ignoring you. You are well-worth paying attention to.
That is my considered opinion.
2006-06-08 08:08:20 · answer #1 · answered by NeoArt 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ditch the B**** anyways you are way to good for that loser besides you have all of the yahoo users to confide in and we won't judge you...
2006-06-08 02:34:43 · answer #2 · answered by Brookey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
diss him you don't need him anymore you have us, besides he is probably not right for you, if he was he wouldn't say does mean things to you, you will be better off whit out him.
lol
2006-06-08 02:57:36 · answer #3 · answered by mari r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋