why do people think that when some one has an affair doesnt love his or her partner?

Question

you may not know what they're going thru ?or they just act upon spite that they been cheated ?
why do you people call other people by names ?when you just might be on the same situation love or no love we all want to do something with out looking at the reprecautions.

Answer 1

I think people are abusive and negative with someone who has had an affair because they count on people being faithful. When someone isn't faithful, their trust in their own relationships is jarred. They are left feeling insecure--if it happened to the other couple, it could happen to them--or so they think.

Either that or they just don't have any tolerance for cheaters. It's against their religious faith, perhaps.

While I agree that a person may have a reason other than not loving their partner to have an affair--spite or revenge isn't much of a good reason. It seems a lot better to think that they really did love the person they cheated with. At least then they know that they cheated for a real reason and not for a flimsy excuse.

Answer 2

Because when you really love them in an intimate way,,you would not want another.Cant you share with your wife what you are going thru?If not,,then maybe you ought not be married.It isnt fair then for either of you.I always look @ the end result ,,,did you ever hear the expression,,look before you leap? lol.

Answer 3

first of all if you love the person that your with why would you want to go and do something that's suppose to be sacred between you and your partner and share it with someone else. If you even let temptation come in between you and your partner then obviously you don't love your partner enough to stop it from happening. When your in love with someone you stay true to that person.

Answer 4

if you are willing to cheat you are giving up on your existing relationship. If you are cheating you are taking the potential out of your relationship and creating a new relationship that cant work out either. So you have no committment and no hope.

Good Luck and God Bless!!

Answer 5

I think that many people jumped to that conclusion because someones trust and emotions have been broken or disregarded. If a person loves someone, why would they want to be with someone else?

Answer 6

for me, your love is very weak if you cheated the person you love. if you really love the person then you'll not do things that can hurt them.