when most guys have friends over for a game or maybe just hang out, they tend to order their girlfriends around by telling them to "make some sandwich for me and the guys, will ya hon." or "Babe while your are up, bring me a cold one will ya" and the girl isnt even out of her chair!! Why wont he just get his lazy butt up and get it himself?!?!
2006-06-07 18:23:12 · 8 answers · asked by truelifeandlove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should know this, some are imature, bossy and so forth because they are insecure. There are sterotypical things shown on t.v. of how men are supposed to act. Don't you remember men aren't supposed to cry? (ref t.v.)
If you want a good relationship --- if he wants that to--- set your expectations of any friend or boyfriend high! Let him know whats expected in a good relationship and ask him what he expects. If you communicate it wil help.
2006-06-07 18:31:42 · answer #1 · answered by Robert Miller 95670 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps this is the way the nature had designed the masculine gender. Male Principle and Female Principle has distinct and unique role in nature, for the very survival of the species and all. It is for male to protect his female and give them comfort, food and care. It is for the female to make a home and care the off springs and the like. Well this is the way the nature is, and it gets reflects in most species of living beings. In modern times, there is a mis conception of feminism, which believes that men and women could be equal. This question of equation is wrong and a myth. Both male and female principle are unique and distinct, one can not substitute the other. Thus it is wrong to think in terms of women becoming like men (This is the underlying thought in feminist minds). Indeed it is ridiculous when a man becomes like a women and vice verse. No matter how ever modern you think to be, you ca not transcend the nature, you could easily become extinct with the rise in suns temperature a little.
2006-06-07 18:40:15 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Girishkumar TS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
convinced men and women individuals can in basic terms be acquaintances. i'm witness to it each day. My husband has an fairly good woman pal, more suitable like a sister separated at start. there have been circumstances that I quite have felt like the third wheel yet I quite have worked by those themes with my husband.
2016-12-06 12:02:06 · answer #3 · answered by schonberg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has been my experience that not all men do this, although it would seem many, many do. I believe that when a man acts differently toward his girlfriend or wife in front of their friends, it's usually an attempt to make up for their own insecurities.
2006-06-07 18:30:26 · answer #4 · answered by rider 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It,s just some bad habits boys grow up with,passed down through their fathers for generations.Strange but some girls love doing the errands to impress.Just tell him to get it himself infront of his pals and watch for reaction.Maybe he dosen,t know he is pissing you.
2006-06-07 18:30:11 · answer #5 · answered by yamaro3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becuase they truley dont value you as a person, and an equal partner in the relationship.
2006-06-07 18:32:28 · answer #6 · answered by imacman941 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
neither will i. if they can't show no respect when their friends are around then their not worth being with.
2006-06-07 18:27:49 · answer #7 · answered by teddybear7169 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BECAUSE THEY WANT TO FEEL IMPORTANT. JUST START IGNORING HIM. HE WILL STOP ASKING YOU TO DO THINGS IN FRONT OF HIS FRIENDS BECAUSE HE KNOW YOU WILL IGNORE HIM AND HE DOESNT WANT HIS FRIENDS TO SEE THAT
2006-06-07 20:13:34 · answer #8 · answered by <<SEXY MOMMA>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋