loving other boy? Do you think there is another way to secure? Tell me more.
2006-06-07 18:18:52 · 11 answers · asked by Somebody that no one loves 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sex is a mere fraction to the whole concept of love. It shouldn't be used as a tool to keep ones partner, but as expression of the trust and care placed upon that person.
The best way to secure a relationship is to take time to make it worthy. Spending time and sharing in their joys and pain. Taking an interest in their lives and hobbies, even if that hobby is boring. It's all about give and take, mutual respect, and sincerity.
Those who try to use sex to keep their partners are just too lazy to devote more emotions and time to the relationship. It's out of fear and that has nothing to do with love.
2006-06-07 18:23:20 · answer #1 · answered by v_stroke_28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I adamantly think it's not right to use sex to ensure a girl's loyalty to her boyfriend. first off, if the love is no longer there, no matter what both of you do, it's just not there, and both of you will want to look for other people to be with. second, it's wrong to even consider pressuring a girl to have sex with her boyfriend if she does not want to. What if she gets pregnant? Will the boy back her up? In most cases, no. And thirdly, there are better and surer ways to ensure loyalty. That is through constant communication. Talk. Get to know your partner, and by doing this both of you are benefiting from a healthy relationship and maturing emotionally and psychologically. By talking to each other, a boy will also know how to be a better boyfriend, and thus will be able to ensure his girlfriend's safety, happiness, love and loyalty. Sex is not the answer to everything.
2006-06-07 18:24:20 · answer #2 · answered by stef 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot use sex to secure anyone. And its not right of you to try. If you love a person, tell them and show them. You cannot make a person stay faithful to you and love you by forcing them. That love will turn to hate.
2006-06-07 18:26:45 · answer #3 · answered by Velken 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want me to stay home honey you need to give me oral sex...having sex 2 times a week and giving me oral sex once every month is not enough. If you loved me you would try to make me happy. Stop telling me your tired all the time. Makes me feel like your not interested in me.
2016-03-26 22:16:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends what type woman you deal with it .
Sometime the big love come after the sex and sometime it goes a way after the sex.
2006-06-07 18:27:43 · answer #5 · answered by o town 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no boys like sex cause we love it but never for that.
2006-06-07 18:24:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if his girl is just bout him he shouldn't have 2 do any thing but b there 4 her as wheal as she 4 him ya heard me
2006-06-07 18:36:12 · answer #7 · answered by louchemoney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no this would be a very insecure method of holding anyone
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2006-06-07 18:20:21 · answer #8 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no... guys like sex because were pigs, no other reason than that..
2006-06-07 18:21:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAKE UP! no way
2006-06-07 18:21:06 · answer #10 · answered by bjvan2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋