A few weeks ago(during school) i walk up to my ex. Seeing that he was talking 2 a friend of his who i started becoming friends with. (So you guys know my ex knew i used to like this friend of ours) and so he acted kinda weird with me so i hugged this friend of ours like i do every morning before 2nd hour. Suddenly my ex makes this face like what is she doing. He tells me '' o so its like that?'' and ive been asking him since that day why it bothered him so much if he knew it was just a friend-hug. What do you think came across his mind? and what should i tell him to let him know i didnt do it on purpose?
2006-06-07 18:15:39 · 8 answers · asked by vanessa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
give him a hug and say your sorry.
2006-06-07 18:19:06 · answer #1 · answered by NONAME 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude-- he's your EX. If you're not dating anymore, he's not allowed to be jealous. What are you, his?? You can hug anyone you want! If he says you can't hug specific people while he's in the vicinity with you, then he's not much of a "friend" if you're trying the "just friends" gig. Tell him you don't appreciate the jealous behavior (since you're not going out anymore) and tell him that you can't be freinds anymore if he can't get past you moving on. He'll probably think you're a "b*tch" at first, but after he thinks about it (and he WILL), he'll probably see that you were perfectly reasonable in your request, and if he does care about you, he'll accept you living your life the way you see fit while in his presence.
Good luck,
-Schmendrick
2006-06-08 01:22:57 · answer #2 · answered by Schmendrick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see. Just imagine you are the side of your boyfriend and he is in your side , What will you do if he hugs a female in front of you or somewhere else if you won't consider it to a high level of misunderstanding then it is ok if so then go and change your perceptions. Your friend might been in love with you
2006-06-08 01:19:52 · answer #3 · answered by Shabeer A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you've got an ex-boyfriend problem . . well . . he's totally jealous no matter what . . he still loves you (somehow), and he thinks that if you make any physical contact with another guy would mean that your trying to make him jealous. which really isnt what you were doing, just tell him what it really was . . he'll get it . . i hope.
2006-06-08 01:21:52 · answer #4 · answered by maia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are either guilty of your feelings or not,you know best what to do so why are you asking for advice.The rest is all in your mind so face it
2006-06-08 01:20:45 · answer #5 · answered by yamaro3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was just jealous dont worry about him u dont have to answer 2 him your not in a relationship anymore!
2006-06-08 01:22:57 · answer #6 · answered by angie* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is jealous and controlling all of the sudden
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2006-06-08 01:18:15 · answer #7 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if u right then please no give excues him. actully if any body made wrong thinking about you then u gave the excues he doesn't staisfy any condiation.
2006-06-08 01:21:29 · answer #8 · answered by pawan.patil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋