Like my gf and i want to know if we can do this on our own......
She is 16 im 18 .......
and we want no parents involved.......
any help?
2006-06-07 18:12:23 · 9 answers · asked by adrian12141 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I'm sure it is hard to hear the anger... the voices calling out to say please don't!
I wanted to encourage you to consider... today your life seems so out of control because there is a human life growing inside of you... one you had not planned on... but tomorrow will be different.
tomorrow can you wake up knowing that you ended the life of your unborn baby? seriously. can you live with that the rest of your life? the simple solution today really isn's so simple because the choice of ending the life of your baby today doesn't end the memory of you doing so. you should read teh stories about the teens who have made that choice and it haunted them for the rest of their lives.
I hope you will consider.... there are other options. did you know that there are homes for teen mothers to go to and receive health care, nutrition, support and housing, etc... while they are waiting on the birth of their unborn babies? did you know there are millions of couples hoping that you will pick them to adopt your baby? did you know that sometimes doing the thing that is best is not easiest? sometimes we have to put our own selfish desires aside... and consider.... now that you have a growing baby inside of you... consdier that life... your unborn baby.
being away six months or so... no one around you would really notice much. if you don't want anyone to know you could go away..... if you are eighteen no one, not even your parents would have to know. if you are 16 no matter what your parents have to know. there is no way out without their consent.
please consider the little voice growing inside of you... please consider other options. that voice wants a mommy and a daddy... someone to love them and take care of them everyday. you can give it to your unborn child... you can make the most mature decision of you life ever... you can love your unborn child and show it by making a decision that is best for him or her... sacrifice your selfish desire to make him/her go away.... sacrifice yourself to give him/her a chance at being loved by a family that really really wants to love him or her. please consider... you can give him/her a life of love.
2006-06-07 19:05:07 · answer #1 · answered by rhythm4soul2 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Since no one answered your question I will, If she's under 18, she has to tell the parents in a written note within 48 hours before the abortion.
Scary what a GOOGLE SEARCH can do.
Besides, what are you doing ....... Never mind I'm not going to chew your *** out, everyone else here will do it for me.
2006-06-08 01:48:08 · answer #2 · answered by Billy T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider adoption instead!! She is under 18, she must have an adult's consent..not yours. And since you are 18, have you considered the the consequenses of statutory rape??? Just some food for thought. Much better to give this baby a chance of a happy life with a coulpe who WANT a baby, than to kill it.....its not the baby's fault, so dont punish him/her.
2006-06-08 02:39:55 · answer #3 · answered by Jenn 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if she is 16, she needs a parents consent. she is underage. she has to tell an adult she can trust. no you. you don't count. why don't you just beat the sh*t out of her tummy. maybe that will work. hey, you asked how to do it with no parents involved. that is my only suggestion. my hometown is dallas.tx.
you better watch out, you better not shout! pearl & baby... are comming .... to town!!!!
2006-06-08 01:39:55 · answer #4 · answered by Pearlz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
18 without parental consent. Please try another alternative. Your lives will not be the same. Guilt and shame. It will haunt you for the rest of your life, believe me I have experienced the pain.
2006-06-14 05:37:03 · answer #5 · answered by lovelyndngirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
! I just can't see how someone would want to PURPOSELY kill another human being...especially a BABY!!! That's so sad and WRONG!!!
2006-06-08 01:23:09 · answer #6 · answered by krazy_gal04 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you even want to kill your baby.That is so ****** up.You have no heart.
2006-06-08 01:19:29 · answer #7 · answered by christiana 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
=( you want to kill your unborn baby... that's really depressing.
2006-06-08 01:17:17 · answer #8 · answered by ♡Monster Meow 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOU PLAY...YOU PAY..!!!! TIME TO GROW UP..
2006-06-08 01:35:44 · answer #9 · answered by uniquedobe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋