I have been thinking that i am gay but i decided that that was not what i was so i tride to ignor it and get along with girls and so far i am doing better but i still sometimes i still think of guys like when you walks by and he is good looking its hard not to think gay thoughts some times i can handle it but others i just cant controll is there any thing i can do to help beat this for good
2006-06-07 18:10:40 · 8 answers · asked by Takune 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
having sex with a guy is a liitle feaky with me but at the moment if i ever got in the sexual mood i probaly would not be able to control my self (darn sexual cravings)
2006-06-07 18:18:35 · update #1
get sum tang
2006-06-07 18:12:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although the religious fundamentals among us would have us believe otherwise, there isn't any 'cure' for homosexuality.
Sure, you could try aversion therapy (that is, when you have a mental image you don't like, you could punish yourself, inflict physical pain while looking at gay porn etc) but really, that'd just probably make you associate pain with sex, which may be a problem for you in and of itself.
Even if you do manage to suppress unwanted thoughts, it won't be for good. There is definitely no way of changing your sexuality for good.
You may as well get used to it and either accept it or realise that you'll be fighting it non stop for the rest of your life.
Sorry. I know it's not what you want to hear.
2006-06-08 05:46:05 · answer #2 · answered by Snippet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could convince yourself that its just not possible- its just a phase. Or maybe you should quit fighting it- Would you actually ever be with another guy? If not, then you are probably just going thru some kind of phase. If you can , then maybe thats who you really are. You mite consider professional advice since this is a very important aspect in your life rite now. Good luck!
2006-06-08 01:15:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be true to yourself. Who turns you on the most - males or females?
You might need to have a fling with a guy to see whether you are interested in pursuing this more.
Lying to yourself will only make it harder in the long run.
2006-06-08 01:17:16 · answer #4 · answered by Beccygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With God all things are possible. It is totally possible to not to let your thought life master you. You are what you think, replace those thoughts. Check out this passage of scripture buddy Phillipians 4:8. Feel free to contact me.
2006-06-08 18:26:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be just a phase? most people go through a stage of thinking they are gay, its normal.
do you have a problem with gay people or is it that you just don't want to be gay yourself?
i think maybe you should just live day by day, eventually you will figure out what is going on.
2006-06-08 02:04:42 · answer #6 · answered by itsjustmecc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am that same way. I am married for 15 years to a great woman who i love - but sometimes a guy will turn my head. Ive always been that way. You are bi curiose.
2006-06-14 16:23:35 · answer #7 · answered by danlow202 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to experiment.....listen to yourself...you are not going to die or get arrested by having sex with another guy...the shame or fear you might feel are just illusions based on cumulative suggestions (false statements and various perceptions) from parents,teachers, society, and religion.....be yourself and you become more of who you are.....
2006-06-08 03:01:57 · answer #8 · answered by patricktpdx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋