my wife left me about a month ago no contact for week or to then finely we talk and she tells me that an old?

Question

boyfrend get"s out of prison and she still in love she never stoped loving him .I Loved her married her made a comitment to her is that how it works these days . come home from work one day and shes gone whats good avice what do you thin i should do ?????????help. daised and confuised

Answer 1

It doesn't matter that you love her. It doesn't matter what you've done for her. She was not strong enough to remain alone while her boyfriend was in prison. You were used, a fill in. It hurts. Yes , this is the way it works, when you're with someone who never loved you. It's easy for this person to do this to you, if you mistreated them in some way. You may be committed, but you may not be earning love and respect, and it makes it super easy for them to leave you without saying 'goodbye'. It doesn't matter if she hurts you, in her mind, if she thinks you've been hurting her too, then you deserve it. If she feels no remorse and you had treated her like a goddess then she is a true psychopath. If she loves a prisoner over you, then he's shown her more affection and made her feel more special than you ever could, or she really is a psychopath, and is attracted to someone just like herself.

Answer 2

Man i really feel for you and can somewhat relate to what you're feeling right now. First off contact a lawyer, since she left the marital dwelling change the locks if you own the house if you're renting have landlord do it so you don't come home to find ur cleaned out or as my buds call it ghetto f'd. Secondly change your bank account if you currently have a joint account with her same reason as the last one. File for divorce . Last but not least hold your head high man, you did nothing wrong, save for falling in love with a skank whore who used you, get on with your life and don't ever look back.

Answer 3

Move on and forget about her. Sounds like she had this planned and was using you to fillfil her needs until he got out of prison. Even if her and her old boyfriend do not work out, do not give her the time of day because she made the mistake of leaving you. So take some time off to recover from this and when you are ready go out and get another woman and take your time.

Answer 4

I am so sorry about your misfortune. Now, the best thing to do is move on with your life. You do not want to be with someone that has picked someone else over you for one and the other is what woman on earth would go to be with an excon over her husband. Believe me you are better off and one day you will probably thank her for leaving. Good luck You will find true love one day and put this all behind you.

Answer 5

Find a good girl. Look in a church.
If she wants someone with a prison record, she's obviously not choice wife material.
Be happy you found out now, instead of later.

Answer 6

i believe no one can give you any good advice besides to leave it alone and move on but i know it is easy said for someone else who is not in that position. But trust me if she says she is in love with someone else then you can not force her to come back and Even if she would come back to you she would always think of the other Man and you would always ask yourself if she thinks of him and if she is in fact happy with you. So moving on is the hardest but also the best. Sorry to tell you this but let it go move on and find someone who deserves your Love and all you have to give. I have learned the hard way that is is best to move on when someone doesn't give you what you are giving them.

Answer 7

As much as it sucks, you can't make someone love you. If you try to make her feel guilty it will come back to haunt you. If it is you that she wants, she will come around you just have to decided if you should wait it out. I am really sorry about what you are going through. I know it is extremly difficult. But you have to let her make her own choices.

Answer 8

Well first of all hammer head you to stop being a hammer head and all learn how to spell. Second, stop meshing with that, "I wanna get ****** in the *** by a former inmate who's got it back there himself *****." Look hammer jammer head relationships end and you just need to find a new no class ***** but with kids so she won't have time to **** around on you because she's busy with hamburger helper and dipers. So take so literacy classes at the community colleges closest to you and move on man. Just move on. Your Welcome.

Answer 9

I would divorce her because she is not the type of person that you want to be married to. If she knew that she was still in love with her ex she shouldn't have married you. She is just confused and she will soon be running back to you but please don't play those little games with her. She will get mad at her ex and run back to you and if you make her mad she will run back to him. You should just forget about her and go on with your life you deserve better than that.

Answer 10

Sorry to hear of the pain all this has caused you. It would be wise to get professional help to aid you in getting through the tough times. You need to move on. Tough times never last, but tough people do!