I am 24 yr old guy
2006-06-07 17:43:09 · 22 answers · asked by jay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, you could. Cupids arrow sometimes misfires. But, remember, she loves someone who loves her just as much and more. Thats why they share a special bond and commitment of marriage. You should find someone who you want to share your life with. Don't dwell on realationship that you shouldn't try to destroy or that could happen to you. Marriage is sacred don't mess it up for them.
2006-06-07 17:47:57 · answer #1 · answered by Robert Miller 95670 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes -- but in what way do you love her?
Be very careful!
If she is happily married, there is no hope for anything with you.
If she is going through hard times in her marriage, do not tell her because you will cause her much unneeded confusion and hurt.
If it is truly meant to be, it will happen.
If you two are friends, just make sure you are always there for her, and be sure to respect the fact that she is married and committed to someone else.
If it is too hard for you, the best thing might be to end any relationship/communication with her.
2006-06-07 19:15:01 · answer #2 · answered by aceolive 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can love anyone you want. If she is married, she can either love you back- which means she wouldnt be faithful to you, or she may not love you back- either way u will end up hurt so give it up now before you make it harder on yourself. Dont forget, we tend to want what we cant have... Is it possible you just think you love her??? Good luck, and dont get hurt
2006-06-07 17:49:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can but you'd be wasting your time unless your gonna wait around for her to get a divorce. Your young find someone unattached and with no baggage. Get off on the right start to get your happiness on!
2006-06-07 17:46:31 · answer #4 · answered by Honey Luv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to re phrase the question. Anyone can love anyone. Are you asking permission? from us, her husband? or her? Love has no boundaries dear. You can love anything, anyone, anytime, just make sure they love you back. Christ even said, "love your enemies". So you can love her husband too. And he should love you. Our government should allow triple partner marriages, so we can solve love triangles forever.
2006-06-07 17:56:19 · answer #5 · answered by FARIDA A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can love her just as you would love any other friend or relative. Remember, God sees all we do, so be careful not to cross the boundary line with someone else's wife.
2006-06-07 17:50:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible, but only leads to heartache because you cannot pursue it. Trust me I have been down that road and amd only just getting back on the highway.
2006-06-07 17:46:54 · answer #7 · answered by SadMan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can love anyone.
And actually you should.
You should not desire a married woman, dough.
Bad for the health.
The mental health.
2006-06-07 17:48:02 · answer #8 · answered by Aritmentor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can, but it hurts, and you're just hurting yourself. You should leave and go elsewhere and think things through. Go find someone else, why would you want to suffer?
2006-06-07 17:50:46 · answer #9 · answered by lola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you love her enough to help her be the best wife she can be to her husband? If you don't have this kind of love, it's just lust.
2006-06-07 17:54:09 · answer #10 · answered by chdoctor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋