my husband or b/friend of 4 years we have aurguments and im really sensitive to being bosed around and i run the show sometimes but every now and then he takes the lead but it hurts when he doesn't listen to me
2006-06-07 17:25:34 · 15 answers · asked by BLUE BUTTERFLY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you see the thing is ite comon law marrige
and hes not white okay try to think like a hispanic
2006-06-07 17:37:10 · update #1
we have 2 kids together and one on the way due in the begining of july
2006-06-08 03:15:41 · update #2
my fiance does the same. when we fight he stops listening, starts yelling hurtful things on purpose (he's admitted) and all becuase he couldn't handle the fight. that's how guys are! I guess we all need to learn to talk more and yell less!
2006-06-07 17:28:47 · answer #1 · answered by MelC 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My ex (a canadian) did the same thing. It really isn't a racial thing for one race to do this and another one not, because everyone can do this. Even women can do this. Anyway, I am now with someone that doesn't get angry easily and that won't say hurtful things, on purpose or otherwise. So, there are guys out there, and women too, that won't do those things. You just have to find them.
2006-06-07 17:46:33 · answer #2 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend is the same he starts arguments with me and hurts me, and sometimes i just want to hurt him also.i get so mad and i sometimes slap him and only think he wants to hurt me and make my life miserable, but then after we steam off some heat we make up,but its getting old. i think he doesn't do it intently tho because i also help start some of the arguments.it can also be my fault for our pain, i guess that's the reason we're still together... its been 3 years and we still love each other(and we still fight alot also, but its all so love)
2006-06-07 17:40:59 · answer #3 · answered by lachicadom1n1cana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not real..I would say female are of the character that you are describing..But the fact is that all we have different perceptions which leads to precept things with in ourselves. So never conclude any thing. just flow through." Present fear is less than horrible imaginations".
2006-06-07 17:30:28 · answer #4 · answered by Shabeer A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, they all arent the same, you just have to have patience, and sit down and talk with him and tell him what he is doing and how you feel and maybe he will change........relationships take time and patience and learning about each other and our faults...so dont give up and dont let him bug you, you need to communicate with him on your feelings, thats what its all about dear.......
2006-06-07 17:35:21 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Lucat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men are like that. They always believe that they have to have their way. I know how it feels. Just tell him that it hurts you when he doesnt listen to what you say & that you'd like it if he listened to you more!
2006-06-07 17:29:24 · answer #6 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some do and some don't its kind of a guessing game with men you just have to find the right one.
Good luck!
2006-06-07 17:29:01 · answer #7 · answered by Emsdal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because the guy i like has never hurt me and he's really nice so i think you will find a guy like that if guys hurt you, you should just ignore them or say leave me alone.
2006-06-07 17:29:10 · answer #8 · answered by cutiepie4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most men are jerks,I think they get off on hurting women at least the ones I have known.
2006-06-07 17:35:30 · answer #9 · answered by tarzan's lady again 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.... they get frusterated and just say stuff sometimes. My boyfriend never says anything hurtful or mean though and says he'll never do anything to ever hurt me intentially.
--- If it happens alot maybe you should re-concider that relationship.
2006-06-07 17:30:59 · answer #10 · answered by Bridgett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋