In case if you have cheated on your husband and had sex with another man, please explain what are the reasons which made you do that?
2006-06-07 17:13:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is only for ladies who has gone through it. because they will be the only people who will know the real reason.(others pls don't get offended)
2006-06-07 17:35:04 · update #1
I cheated on my first husband because i felt he did not love me and he would always look at and lust after other women. He was mentally and emotianally abusive too. I did this because i did not feel loved and cherished by him. This was a wrong response on my part however and i never should have done this to him or to our marriage. We are not held accountable for what happens to us but we are held accountable to how we respond or react. I do not recommend that anyone ever cheat or be untrue to their spouse it does not work and it makes you feel dirty and it only causes pain and aggravation and breaks up marriages! I am married now to a wonderful husband for going on 7 years and i would not even dream of being unfaithful to him!
2006-06-07 23:36:19 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Its truly horrible , you have no idea , i was so fed up with the other guy hounding me i just thought maybe if i just f**k him he will be done and leave me alone . get his conquest and just leave my marriage and me alone , also i felt immense pity for him , he was always whining and complaining life's not fair blah blah i felt bad didn't want to hurt him cause i only wanted to be his friend , yeah he was attractive but i wasn't turned on by his touch ,everything felt wrong and gross ,just ended up hurting him more by doing all that , shoulda just stuck to walking away from all that crap . He's not what matters tho , whats worst of it all is by trying to spare this other guys feelings i fucked my husbands everything up the man i care about the most in the entire world .
2006-06-08 00:35:33 · answer #2 · answered by insertstrawhere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he made me feel pretty, sexy, smart, empowered, important...what I had to say was important and mattered. He made me feel "special", able to do new thing, reach new places...mentally and physically. There was passion for him and he had it for me. We couldn't keep our eyes, hands, bodies off each other. It is totally selfish. There was no "he done me wrong" or "he cheated on me first." My husband loves me the only way he knows how. Unfortunately we speak very differently when it comes to love. No matter how wonderful our marriage is, I have always felt an emptiness/longing for love, passion, desire...I found it.
Many Wonderful Happy Smiles to you!
Mis
2006-06-08 01:26:25 · answer #3 · answered by Missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i m not married but i can try to answer ur qtn becos i hv frens who are married. Maybe the wife is not sexually satisfied with her husband, he would not have shown love and care for her, does not appreciate her, always on overseas trips, have an affair with another lady. If all these exists she will tend to find another man who makes her happy definetly she will fall for him which leads to sex.
2006-06-08 00:24:27 · answer #4 · answered by sri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't cheated on my husband (and I will not) so I am not so sure what to answer. We are both committed to each other and stay faithful for the rest of our marriage.
2006-06-08 00:23:33 · answer #5 · answered by sweethonesty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never cheat on my husband, i'm not like that. but if it ever did happen it would be because he cheated on me and i would run to someone who would listen and cares about me, because it really hurts when someone cheats on you especially when you love them so much and you would do everything for them.
2006-06-08 00:19:00 · answer #6 · answered by lola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No communication, no attention whatsoever, he built a wall up around him, did not listen to me when I tried to talk TV was more important, jumped down my throat every time I asked a question, made me feel stupid nearly everyday, felt very unwanted and very unloved.
2006-06-08 01:39:06 · answer #7 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unmet needs every time. excitement. love. attention. adoration. novelty. interesting conversation, personal growth, not just in sex.
Now that i am in a relationship that meets all my needs i have no interest in any other man. It's like they became invisible.
2006-06-08 00:18:56 · answer #8 · answered by BonesofaTeacher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not cheating i had every thing by his consent i and he interseted in group sex
2006-06-08 00:52:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheated on me first!!!!!!!!! and i felt it necessary to get even with him!!*
2006-06-08 00:15:31 · answer #10 · answered by baller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋