2006-06-07 16:52:11 · 10 answers · asked by C B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you are in a bad situation and you need to change things. get yourself into therapy and learn how to stop arguing. take a yoga class and get in touch with yourself and what you want to do about your situation.
2006-06-07 16:56:37 · answer #1 · answered by BonesofaTeacher 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because he lies arnd agues alot does not mean he is cheating! Ask him if he is cheating or having an affair. Seems to me there are alot of problems in this marriage and you both need counseling and help to work on this marriage to even begin to save it!
2006-06-07 23:28:44 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, i thought i was alone on that same topic, but guess not. I argue alot with my husband too, but i still love him very much, and he tells me that he still loves me and that he would never cheat on me because he says he's not like that, and when it comes to real sh*t, he would never do that to me. So i honestly don't really trust him when he says that to me, eventhought i want to so bad, because he does lie alot to me about the stupid things he did. Don't you sometimes wish you can put him on a lie detector? I really do. Well you should sit down with him and ask up front, Do you still love me? Would you ever cheat on me? And do you still want to be with me? Well good luck on you, let me know how things go okay.
2006-06-07 17:05:00 · answer #3 · answered by lola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone once told me marriage problems are caused because both parties don't want to own up to their responsibilities. Do what you got to do and don't worry yourself over feelings that he's cheating on you. Be honest with him and tell him what you feel and what you're thinking and remember, compromise and things should get better if each of you really love each other.
2006-06-07 17:03:32 · answer #4 · answered by Diana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like i previously read i thought i was the only one. If you feel that you're stomach hurt and have a bad feeling in you're heart i guess they have some body else. Be strong and think if u want to end or continue. I decided to continue but i'm living in a sad world with no trust and lonely more than ever.
2006-06-07 19:57:33 · answer #5 · answered by gg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are arguing a lot and he lieing to you well it look like your marriage is about over with especially when you think he is cheating on you i would think its time to go your own ways.because if he cheating on you he doesn't want you any more or love you so what left in the marriage???.
2006-06-07 17:41:52 · answer #6 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave it save a lot of trouble in the long run if he lies and you think he is cheating he proble is i did the same thing to my wife and now i regret it
2006-06-07 18:16:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you both need to communicate more. ....Let him know how you feel and why, and ask him to do this same for you.
2006-06-07 17:13:01 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no couple here doesn't argue at all.
how can u tell he cheats on u?
2006-06-09 16:10:03 · answer #9 · answered by Ted 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think it's happening, it probably is......Follow him and take photos if necessary so you have ammo for when you go to divorce court........
2006-06-07 16:59:57 · answer #10 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋