This is a tuff one. I live with my best friend and her family. Her cousin also stays here. I've been messing around with her cousin for the past 6 months. Hes the greatest. The problem is he has a girlfriend and a child. His girlfriend comes over during the day with the baby, me and her are cool. And Im in the with his baby which i get along with great. The problem is I dont know what to do. I feel as if im living a lie. Me and him sleep in the same bed at night and everything. but when his girl comes over we act as friends. I dont know what to do. I have deep feelings for him and im not sure he knows it. What should I do?
2006-06-07 16:50:23 · 12 answers · asked by baby_momma3586 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
And 4 is out of the question!
He is the greatest what?
Do you want to get pregnant and have a baby just to get left behind like she did .
Can you say LOSER!
Move out and move on .
2006-06-07 17:00:38 · answer #1 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what to do. You know what you are doing is wrong. You know that you should not be sleeping with this guy. You need to move out of there like yesterday and get on with your own life.
If you keep this up you will cause a big mess and get put out on you butt and loose your best friend. Stop It Now
2006-06-07 16:55:15 · answer #2 · answered by digimutt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop right now! This guy is a mess. He's got a kid AND a girlfriend??!!! You know this is wrong. Are you just asking to get validation? You are just setting yourself up for a world of hurt and a spot on Jerry Springer. Learn to respect yourself and maybe you'll stop letting other people disrespect you (like this guy!).
2006-06-07 16:57:21 · answer #3 · answered by coco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one, are you having sex with him? why would you do that, he has a child, how would feel if you had a boyfriend and a kid and found out he was ******* som other chick? Its not right, you should end the relationship and tell the girlfriend about what was going on, maybe they can find some counceling.
2006-06-07 16:54:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why ask you know the answer to this. someone needs to make a choice. and make it fast do you think it is right what you are doing behind the girls back? how would you feel if it was you that this was happening to? Both of you are in the wrong you both need to make it right one way or the other. It is up to you but you need to do something.
2006-06-07 16:56:47 · answer #5 · answered by liza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you're getting screwed here. he has a girlfriend, and he gets a little action on the side with the girl who conveniently lives in the same place as him. basically your his no-stings-attached bed warmer. get out of that situation.
2006-06-07 17:01:25 · answer #6 · answered by Ganesa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being a slu*. if you know the man has a girlfriend and a child,
then you do the math. myself i would not lower myself to be apart
of something so low. how would you feel if the shoe was on the
other foot?
2006-06-07 17:04:32 · answer #7 · answered by sexy brown eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move out,you are living a lie,i can see that it bothers you,if you know you are doing something wrong,change it before you get to involved...think of the child.and shame on him,playing two women at the same time.
2006-06-07 16:55:02 · answer #8 · answered by deerwoman777 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell his girlfriend what's going on with you two and if she is mad, tell her that you are in love and nothing is going to bring you 2
apart.
2006-06-07 16:56:22 · answer #9 · answered by princesssassy1195 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's cheating on his girlfriend with you. and if she's not aware of it you're lying to her.
You should stop immediately. The choice of whether to tell her or not is your decision.
2006-06-07 16:53:06 · answer #10 · answered by revoltix 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋