my ex best friendin te world told my secrets 2 this boy i use 2 like and she thought it was funny she told him my deepest darkest secrets can u belive it i asked her did u tell carlos my secrets and she started laughin and said yeah i did and im sorry that was so stupid do u think i should 4give her
2006-06-07 16:44:28 · 8 answers · asked by Samanta M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Life is too short to hold a grudge against a person. I lost one of my best friends to a car accident a few days ago. A friend can be there one day and gone the next without you even thinking it's possible. Think about it. Tell her why you are mad and make up.
Good luck hun.
2006-06-07 16:49:01 · answer #1 · answered by DoWHATiDO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a big believer in forgiving one another, so forgive her. But ask yourself whether you can really trust this friend in the future. What if your secrets had been a matter of life and death? Could she keep a secret? It appears not because she punked you.
You sound young and if so, remember this: Don't tell all your business...because if two people know a secret, that's one person too many. I wish you luck!
2006-06-08 00:28:43 · answer #2 · answered by joncarhas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is up to you to forgive her. If you still want to be friends with her, you can forgive her but keep in mind that she has to gain your trust back. She threw that out the window when she told this guy you like your secrets. At least you know who you can trust now. If you decide not to forgive her, tell her why and be completely honest with her. Make new friends and don't let this experience get you down. Like I said before: it is up to you. Do what is best for you.
2006-06-07 23:58:26 · answer #3 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i wouldnt forgive her. She told him something about you that was very personal. Not to mention the fact that you probably werent ready to tell him at that exact time. She would be my enemy and now your potential man knows something secret about you.
2006-06-07 23:52:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that is a toughy it would depend on how long you have been friends and if you did forgive dont tell her anything ever again
2006-06-07 23:49:35 · answer #5 · answered by jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes forgive her but,tell her nothing eles.
2006-06-08 00:00:44 · answer #6 · answered by deerwoman777 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick her to the curb. she has no loyalty.........
2006-06-07 23:55:29 · answer #7 · answered by pinkysingh007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, dump her.
2006-06-07 23:48:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋