My "good" friend of nearly 20 years and I stopped talking over two years ago about something that could've been talked out and worked out but she just chose to shut down. I tried to get in contact with her a couple times, but she never responded so I just gave up. I still think about her sometimes but I must let go...
2006-06-07 16:43:54 · 11 answers · asked by Jacinda 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You just have to keep in mind that everything has a beginning and an end. No matter what you will always have the memories of what you did and what the two of you shared.
2006-06-07 16:49:58 · answer #1 · answered by Sander 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah this has happened to be also except I was friends with her for 7 years. She just got all weird and never wanted to talk and we lived together. She would just stay in her room all the time. Then I graduated and had to move for a job and we talked about that for about 6 months. Then after I moved she would never return my calls and never came over. She lost all this weight and got even more weird and didn't want to hang out anymore. I still think about the "good old days" when we had alot of fun and when I could talk to her about anything. I recently called her but she just wasn't the same. It is sad, I am also trying to let go. But it is hard when a person has that kind of effect on your life to just let go. Good Luck.
2006-06-07 16:49:14 · answer #2 · answered by datchic412 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I lost a friend just about the same way and I have tried to get in touch more than once but her whole family moved and I can not find her. It's sad really we were best friends I was in her wedding and her husband was mines best friends but my husband decided he would beat me up one night and I tried to kill him with a knife after he broke my nose. I still miss her not him I think her husband would not let her talk with me any more.
2006-06-07 16:51:42 · answer #3 · answered by liza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a best friend since middle school and we've gone our separate ways once we went to high school. She started drinking and smoking weed and I chose to not be her best friend anymore. We remained friends for the next two years during high school. I haven't seen her for three years now. It is sad that we were no longer friends, but life goes on and I made a new best friend.
2006-06-07 16:52:49 · answer #4 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly i do not fairly like going round people a lot both i ought to particularly stay domicile and play video games or carry out with an huge pal or 2 on the domicile. i bypass out at evening frequently at the same time as there are not thousands of people in each and every single position. people can make you indignant or you need to compared to them in any respect or maybe get mad or aggravated by ability of them. yet they are in basic terms attempting to live on the following too and could maximum probably be pleasant in case you instruct them you're trying to be pleasant too. in spite of this some persons are a soreness interior the a$$ and those you in straightforward words want to get out off your existence and thoroughly ignore about them.
2016-12-06 11:57:28 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This also happened to me it's like they just shut down like the friendship meant nothing. And we are like we can fix this if you just talk about it, eventually you say forget it life goes on! I quit trying to figure people out.
2006-06-07 16:57:13 · answer #6 · answered by askmeguru21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya its really sad.
i had a friend since 4th grade. well now im in 10th.
but still its 6 years its still kinda sad.
we used to be hellof tight then i changed schools and now we dont even talk anymore. she patronizes me. like i call her all the time and then the calls slow down..and now we dont even talk..
its sad.
a great friendsip lost to distance
2006-06-07 16:45:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, my entire fam stopped talking to my oldest sister for about 13 years. She did not want to talk to us either until recently. We saw her and her kids, but it still was kind of awkward.
2006-06-07 16:49:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it does suck
but you make new friends, friends that will treat you better and will stay with you threw thick and thin
so it's all good
but i do understand why you would be upset
it's happened to me too
2006-06-07 16:47:05 · answer #9 · answered by WAA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know that i let go of a fiend because she was always being dramatic, and that just wasn't what i needed in my life. i just got tired of her stupid problems. maybe one of you has reached this point, and the other one is the annoying friend.
2006-06-07 16:47:40 · answer #10 · answered by Lori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋