my problem started in eigth grade. I went to a dance and i wanted to dance with this guy named marcus.So i asked him and we danced. But then i soon developed a huge crush on him. I bought him a gift and from what I heard he took it home and set it on fire.I have also done other stuff like making prank calls to his house just to hear his voice. I have also pretended to be someone else online just so i could talk to him.I have done this more then once and one time i did it it and it turned out to be his mom she said that she is going to talk to my mom and he has therated to get a restarining order
so what do i do?
2006-06-07 16:42:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You are obviously obsessed about this Marcus person, the best thing to do is to leave Marcus alone. It is unhealthy to do such things just to talk to Marcus or hear his voice.
My advice is to get some counciling, don't let this offend you but, this could lead people into thinking you are a psychopath. And his mom has every right to file a restraining order against you if you act like you said. It is one thing to be love with a person but it is another thing to be obsessed with that same person.
All of this unhealthy behavior can lead to the problems of not having a healthy relationship when you get older. The best thing for you to do is to send Marcus or his mother an email saying,"I am sorry I acted like I did. Please tell Marcus that I am sorry for being obsessed with him, and that I will no longer bother him. Also, you had every right to file a restraining order against me. I hope you accept my apology
sincerely,
(insert name here)"
I hope things work out
2006-06-07 17:58:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find another outlet for your considerable energy and leave marcus alone! He has made his choice and life is too short to spend it trying to impress someone who is obviously not interested not to mention going to court on the restraining order or, worse, jail for defying it. You should definitely also give some thought to what it is about Marcus in particular that causes you to act like this; it may not even be about him but could be more about something you feel is lacking in your own life in general. Understanding what this is all about for you could help you to not repeat this and to look for someone who wants the love you have to give.
2006-06-07 16:50:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back and talk to him somehow and just apologize for doing what ou did. It is a tough thing to go through though.Apologize to his mom too! It would be the right thing to do! Tell his family that you love him and that you are very sorry for what you did. Then try to ask him out, if he says no then leave him alone. Hope this helps!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-07 17:12:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. If he doesn't want to talk to you or anything find someone else. He seems to be a little immature to me. If he really likes you he would talk to you but just leave him alone. There are plenty of other guys.
2006-06-07 17:30:57 · answer #4 · answered by Kris aka Kristy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! the only answer to your problem is stop stalking that guy. Girl, I know you like him SO SO MUCH but hey! You should stop your craziness or else, they will send you to jail for stalking.
2006-06-07 23:24:24 · answer #5 · answered by CaRoLiNe-GLeN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop stalking the guy!!!! The mom has every right to get a restraing order!!
2006-06-07 16:46:58 · answer #6 · answered by Zippio_loves_Baby_boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The crazy bastard doesn't like you.
Leave him alone.If he comes up to you and starts giving you crap just shoot him a bird then walk away.If you absolutely must have a BF at 14,find soem one who actually deserves you.
2006-06-07 17:48:04 · answer #7 · answered by Myaloo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BACK OFF NOW!!
ever heard of stalking?
sorry but it's obvisous that he doesn't feel the same way!
2006-06-07 16:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by Toni K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you're becoming to attacked to him. you need to find someone else and get on with your life
2006-06-07 16:48:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone before they get you for stalking!
2006-06-07 16:46:25 · answer #10 · answered by SKITTLES 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋