ok there is this guy i like he is the most popular guy in school. he is also super hot but that isnt the only reason i like him. He has a great personality and he is my best freinds cousin. when i am at her house he acts like he likes me but when he is around his freinds he just ignores me.I always imagine us walking down the road holding hands. I am going into the 7th grade and am 11 years old. what should i do!~!~!~!~. i also have a boyfreind but i cant c us as more than just freinds we have been going out for 2 years and im afraid i will hurt him and he will cry which i don't want. WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!!!!!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~
2006-06-07 16:37:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
your only 11 years old, 4 years ago you couldn't ride a bike without training wheels. you're not even in high school, yet! you shouldn't even be dating or worrying about guys. wat's the point in having a boyfriend at 11 years old anyways??! is it to look cool? is it reputation? do you know what that word means? ... is it for popularity?
2006-06-07 18:23:04 · answer #1 · answered by Pearlz 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be concentrating on boys right now . You are just about the 7th grade, which means your only 11. You should be putting that same energy into your education. As for already having a boyfriend for the last two years, nah!!
If you carry on like this young lady, you'll be pregnant by 14. Your taking all this too seriously. Enjoy your young life and get out more with the girls, have sleep overs and concentrate on your studies. Boys aren't going anywhere.....they'll always be around.
2006-06-08 03:13:12 · answer #2 · answered by dizzydee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you and your boyfriend aren't made for each other, then it's probably better that you break up with him. If he cries, just tell him that you're really sorry, and that you only did it because you didn't want to hurt him worse later on when he'd gotten more attached. And, as for your crush, if he's acting nice around you when you're alone, and then completley ignoring you around his friends, he's not worth it. He's the kind of guy that will be sweet and kind and wonderful when you're alone, and then the second he's with his friends he will badmouth you just to look cool. Find another guy, a guy that's a the kind of guy you can spend months on end with, and never get annoyed with each other. Find the guy that completes you. He doesn't have to be exactly like you, he just has to be able to carry on a conversation about things you like, and the same for you.
Hope this is good advice,
2006-06-08 00:03:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really don't want to be with your boyfriend, dump him. He is going to go through hard times, but he'll find someone else! Say, I think we should be just friends. And to find out about the other guy, just ask him when you are at your bff's house! And just tell him you like him! Chances are, he likes you too!
2006-06-08 10:15:12 · answer #4 · answered by la. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie,you're 11.YOU don't need a boyfreind.Boys in 7-10th grade are immature jerks.Wait till you're 16 or 17 then start dating.Sure ,the guys will still be abit on the horny immature jerk side of things but hey its better than the guys you're goin after.
I'm 14 and I still don't need a boyfriend.They are useless at our age.
2006-06-08 00:52:18 · answer #5 · answered by Myaloo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you and this guy get some time alone then ask him if he likes you? if yes then break up with ur current bf and go with this guy. if no then who cares about him anyway. also if u dont like ur current boyfriend as anything more than a friend then what the h.e.l.l. r u thinking going out with him for two years???
2006-06-08 01:40:48 · answer #6 · answered by predictable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to do whats right for you. if your not happy with your BF tell him and if he crys tell him to grow up. And you need to tell this person that you really like that you do. You might be serpirzed and you never know he might like you anyway. Lads wont show there feelings there never do.
2006-06-08 10:49:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you reaaaally like your current bf, then why should you go with the other one?but, if you're in a position that you wanna leave ur bf for the other hot guy, just dump him.easy peasy. he won't cry, that's babyish! (i know cuz i'm 12!)
2006-06-08 10:21:06 · answer #8 · answered by KK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that guy wants to be kool & ingnores u just imagine how he would treat u if u guys were dating! omg & ur 2 young to date wait a while trust me! i m 12!
2006-06-08 00:28:26 · answer #9 · answered by Dude It's Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it, its not worth it he should treat you the same as when yall are alone, youll run into that alot with popular guys sweety they are jerks! if you dont like your boyfriend break up with him dont waste your time on him! get it over with before you truely do end uo hurting him! ~good luck~
2006-06-07 23:46:04 · answer #10 · answered by Tara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋