Should I tell my boyfriend that I kissed my ex-boyfriend. I love my boyfriend very much and I feel very badly about this. I know something like this can break us up. I don't know what I was thinkint...I don't even know if I was thinking at all to begin with. I just need advice. Should I tell him should I keep it a secret. Was it a big deal since it was a kiss. Need help A.S.A.P
2006-06-07 16:04:01 · 17 answers · asked by BROOKIE1984OC 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you feel guilty for what you did, this whole "oh my god i kissed my ex" isn't gonna leave you alone, get it over with. let him know because i'm sure you wouldn't like it if he was in your shoes and he kept something like that from you. i'm sure it was something unexpected unless you still feel something for your ex. the truth is extremely painful, but a lie along the way is worse and he'll hate you for it. because if it was really nothing, then there's nothing to worry about, yes he'll be mad, but would you rather for him to hate you for the rest of your life or be very angry for a few days?
2006-06-07 16:17:01 · answer #1 · answered by Demonfairy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it feels correct than go for it. However do not drive it. I assume i'd as a substitute him kiss me seeing that he's the person who shouldn't be conscious of the problem. Let it happen naturally. I'm not certain the kiss is a seal of the deal and environment him up isn't too cool both. Most humans bear in mind what felt just right and would need that back in a minute so i am not certain he needs help with a kiss. Let it progress because it will have to. If anything this should be a reunion to speak about us and what has growth in our lives and then confidently we are able to transfer on to that kiss.
2016-08-08 21:52:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all the fact that you did kiss your ex-boyfriend means that there is probably some unresolved issues between the both of you,you clearly need to replay this situation in your head.ask your self do you still love your ex-boyfriend or do you love your boyfriend.if you will decide to stay with your boyfriend then it is probably best not to mention this to him after all it,s not like you had sex with him.and if you decide to go back to your ex-boyfriend then it would be appropriate to tell your boyfriend about the kiss and the feelings that you still have for your ex-boyfriend that would be best after all you would have owed him that much.
2006-06-07 16:16:15 · answer #3 · answered by 0samaria s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want it to be an honest relationship, you have to tell him. Would you want to be told? Don't down play it either. If you are going to tell him, tell him the whole truth. I tell on myself all of the time even if I know it's going to start a huge fight. I am honest, and it is the best policy. Trust me. You don't want to have secrets they will eat you alive. Be honest and be respected. By the way I don't cheat, I tell on myself for every other thing.
2006-06-07 16:09:34 · answer #4 · answered by ticklefoot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell is wrong with you???? why the hell did you kiss your ex...? YES it could be a big deal. but if you tell him you have a better chance of staying with him rather than ur ex or one of your exs friends blabbing theyre F*cking head off and ur boyfriend hears about it....
which means tell him or burn in hell for not telling him. if you truly had a heart you wouldnt ask this crap on here and you would know that it is wrong to hide that crap
2006-06-07 16:10:11 · answer #5 · answered by Black_Rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously there was a reason why you kissed your ex talk to him about it, if you find that you still have feelings for him tell ur bf if not than its ur little secret and dont worry about it. a kiss is nothing in most relationships i kiss my guy friends as a greeting not because i like them
2006-06-07 16:09:25 · answer #6 · answered by lilshortsunshine2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just forget about the kiss and live ur normal life. cos telling ur boyfriend may start an fight and lead to disturbance in ur relationship. Try not to repeat this kind of mistake again
2006-06-07 16:08:29 · answer #7 · answered by joey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him and what are u doing hanging with your ex anyway?
How would u like it if your now boyfriend hooked up with his ex ? I bet you'd be upset. so don't do this to him if u feel anything for him.
2006-06-07 16:13:51 · answer #8 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg no u shouldnt have done dat u wouldnt want him to do dat and maybe u should tell him i think it would be for tha best no use in lying if u love him
2006-06-07 16:24:54 · answer #9 · answered by $_$aRiEl$_$ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it to yourself and don't be so dramatic. Things like that happen. If you're not comfortable with it, make sure it doesn't happen again.
2006-06-07 16:07:32 · answer #10 · answered by pookybitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋