i broke up my bf he cried. broke up with him for one of his friends! the friend Was really nice and all we went on dates and all. there is a 3 year age difference between me and him 14 and 17. a little birdie told me that he saw the friend with another girl which i can't stand ( me and that girl have been in a fight before) and the birdie told me that the other girl said that she had lost her virginaty to the guy what should i do? he won't answer his cell phone. but the thing is that he just had his wisdom teeth pulled. should i listen to the little birdie and talk to him about it do i confront the girl or do i just give up on him im so confussed
2006-06-07 16:02:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
my ex was 17 going on 18 and his friend is a grade younger only 17 going to be a jr. and they know no means no. plus im with other people when we go on dates. i don't go out with guys form my school in my grade because they are all my friends and they are perves so why give up a friend ship when i can go out with older guys who understand themselves better and don't just think about sex what should i do
2006-06-07 16:38:37 · update #1
never mind i told him about what the birdie had said and then he stoped the relationship because he said there was no trust thank you all for your advice
2006-06-11 13:35:13 · update #2
First of all you shouldnt of broken up for one of his friends.. Have you ever heard of the Saying Bro's before Ho's . Stop listening to that little birdie and listen to your self... Geesh.. I feel bad for you ex... geesh.. you are very very selfish... and ya know what.. that other guy is 17 .. and he probably just wants... well you know..and then he's done
2006-06-07 16:07:59 · answer #1 · answered by candice c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well that other "birdie" sounds like a gossip. So i wouldn't listen to them---at all. Then if the poor kid had his wisdom teeth taken out, give him a while. I had mine taken out not too long ago and I cried for 2 days straight.. so give him a sec, then try to talk to him. But don't you think it's a little weird that a 17yr old is interested in dating all of these younger kids.. what, he's gonna be a senior in highschool and you guys are going to 9th grade? That's a big difference. But just wait it out until you get to talk to him=)
2006-06-07 16:15:13 · answer #2 · answered by cassyg43 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny, you're young, and there are plenty of fish in the sea. The drama isn't worth it. One way or the other, (if it's true or not) your trust is still going to be pretty smashed. Go for someone more your age anyway who's looking for a less intense relationship. (c'mon, you know he wants it)
2006-06-07 16:18:07 · answer #3 · answered by goodgirlsweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the birdies always what to ruin your love life or something like that so i suggest do not listen to the birdie!
2006-06-07 22:16:25 · answer #4 · answered by someone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy that you are trying to talk to who is avoiding your phone calls and refuses to talk to you whether or not his teeth were pulled. girl, don't you see, he doesn't want to talk to you for a reason. obviously he's not interested and he's only interested in the other girl that you got into a stupid fight with. i don't understand why you have to break up with a boyfriend just cuz you found somebody "cuter" than him. you are too young for him and he knows it. just leave him alone before you cause him to hurt your feelings.
2006-06-07 18:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by Pearlz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you scored a guy with a car
Oh,um ,yeah*ehem*well,Your ex needs to deal.
Find out for yourself if the guy is cheating on you,if he is ,then do what feels right.
But,in my opinion you shouldn't be dating right now as young as you are.Too much drama.
2006-06-07 18:01:10 · answer #6 · answered by Myaloo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shoudn't have broken up with ur ex..u kinda sound like a, not to be mean, ****. u went from ur ex to an older guy... actually his friend.. so i guess u should just find someone ur age before u get ur self a baby and std's
2006-06-07 16:17:53 · answer #7 · answered by WOW! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 14 and should not be dating someone that much older than you! How much can you have in common with someone that much older than you? Date someone your own age and you will be much happier!
2006-06-07 16:08:09 · answer #8 · answered by butterburgerqueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him openly and honestly about your feelings. You can work it out or go your seperate ways.
2006-06-07 16:06:47 · answer #9 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him. Once his mouth heals.
2006-06-07 17:33:37 · answer #10 · answered by Kris aka Kristy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋