2006-06-07 15:50:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well, the fact that he yells and loses his temper is wrong. But he also has trust issues with you and you have to find out why. Simply try to approach him at a time when both of you are calm and say something like "Dad, sometimes i get so angry and frustrated with you cause i feel like you don't trust me when you don't let me do things that I want to do. What is the reason that you don't let me do things and I would appreciate you not losing your temper". if he continues to lose his temper, continue to tell him that you don't appreciate it in the calmest manner that you possibly can. Keep saying it and eventually, he'll get the point. Right now, he's losing his temper because he thinks that's establishing authority. It doesn't but he doesn't realize it.
2006-06-07 15:55:32 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Phil-lys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have left out how old you are. If you are a minor, what your dad's says pretty much goes. Losing his temper may not be a good thing. If he only yells, he just releasing his frustration out on the situation. Now if he gets physical when he is angry, that's not good. That would need to be addressed. Your dad like any parent has rules and most kids don't like the rules. Sorry until you become an adult, you will have to live with it.
2006-06-07 22:57:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, maybe you could make it aware to him in a nice manner that he never will get anywhere with you when he is trying to get his point across by yelling at you. Tell him that you will listen to him when he is calm and somewhat well mannered. Try not to argue with him, afterall you are probably only a young teenager, and this is just a dad thing.
2006-06-07 22:56:02 · answer #3 · answered by caligirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take the time to think of how it's not easy to be a parent. You think your life is hard, i'm sure it is, but give them a break its also hard to be a parent. That always helps me, just go apoligize for getting mad, and you'll put yourself back on the right track.
2006-06-07 22:53:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your father he only wants what best for you try to be more understanding but you can let him know that yelling at you hurts you
2006-06-07 22:54:31 · answer #5 · answered by toosexy4thisshit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
exactly how old are you? If you are young, and live in your dad's house, then you should obey his rules. He only makes the rules for you to follow because he loves you and would like to see you grow to be a decent person.
2006-06-07 22:54:37 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look dont be mad or anything but your dad tells you what is good for you he is like that because he cares for you not because he does not want you to do anything i'm 20 and i would of get mad when my mom did not let me to do what i wanted to do i have a baby right now and i carefor him i takecare of him and see what is right for him
2006-06-07 22:54:31 · answer #7 · answered by princessgirl99343 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you are still under his care and there is not much you can do about it. Study hard and have a good career then you can do whatever you want.
2006-06-07 22:55:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do everything in secret. So that he won't never know what u want to do. He could not protest u . Ignore what he say. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
2006-06-07 22:55:22 · answer #9 · answered by nguyen Lam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a job... pay a bill... show you're responsible and he'll respect you enough to let you do things you normally wouldn't have permission to do... i speak from experience.. i even went as far as paying all the bills and kickin him out :) *it works
2006-06-07 22:54:41 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋