if u found out your boyfrien is cheatin on you how do u get over it?

Question

help me please he is my first and true love i kant get over him i found out awhile ago tell me how can i get him off my mind so i cant get some sleep please

Answer 1

I AM SORRY TO TELL YOU BUT YOU WANT EVER GET OVER IT BECAUSE NO MATTER HOW HARD YOU TRY IT WILL ALWAYS BE IN THE BACK OF YOUR HEAD

Answer 2

Most people would tell you to go party and find another man, but i think differently. If you can, talk to him and ask him why he did it. If he's rude and wont give you an answer than it's not worth finding out. If he cheated on you than obviously your not his true love and there's nothing you can do about that. You can't force some one to love you. Just try to move on with you life by finding something interesting to do with your friends. (girls) Try to stay away from having boyfriends for a while. You will know when the right person comes along.

Answer 3

This will definitely take some time. First of all you were cheated on, second he was your first love. Both are very hard to get over, and the reality is there are no rules on how to deal with the pain. Hang out with your friends and lean on them for support. Soon you will realize that anyone who cheats on you is not worthy of you love in the first place. There is someone out there that will love you and respect you. You won't be able to see this now, but someday you will look back and wonder why you spent so much time being sad over him. Be strong, you will get over this.

Answer 4

Only way is to leave his *** and find someone better and way hotter than him. And let yourself be seen by people who know u and that know him. That way they will see u and go back and tell him. That would go right up his ***. Or go to a local hang out that he goes to wearing the sexiest thing u can find. Say hi and mingle with his friends and just act like hes not there. The key is to make yourself look like u are having a great time without him. Besides u dont need his dum ***! :)

Answer 5

Have you confronted him about it? You guys need to talk this through and maybe get some counseling or you need to leave him. I know you may not want to hear it but believe me it help you in the long run. You will never get over the fact that the man that you loved so dearly cheated on you with another woman and still be with him at the same time. Please leave him because he will do it again.

Answer 6

If he's your first then you're most likely young. Understand that young peole cheat often because that's how they feed their insecurities. The more people that they can "get" the better they think they feel about themselves. Women are not exempt from this. I see thousands of questions from girls who have cheated so it's not just men. Once a person matures, they understand that they don't like getting cheated on so they learn by default to stop doing it to others. You can tell yourself that you have nothing to do with this and that this is merely you're ex's inability to deal with his own issues of insecurity, inability to communicate and lack of empathy towards others. You just happened to be one of the victims but there will be more until he finally decides to grow up. You'll be just fine.

Answer 7

first you need to lose him make sure he is gone you do not need that in your life. You need to tell yourself that you are better than that. because you are. never let that kind of person get you down. you are the one in control don't let any male mess up your mind. You sound like you are young and still have a lot to live for so get out there and live life to the fullest. Or you can think of revenge. maybe not do it but it is fun thinking about it. That got me through one time.

Answer 8

sweet revenge. go out find someone better in all aspects and throw it in his face. my ex fiance was cheating on me, i found an amazing guy threw it in his face and still to this day do. my ex is miserable in his marriage now, has no job and life pretty much suck for him. i on the other hand am living the life of luxury. we are very well off inthe money are extremely happy in marriage and rasing our 3 beautiful girls.

Answer 9

You need to just let it go - forgive him and let it go. You have the ability to control your emotions - whether you realize it or not.
Talk to a trusted friend about your feelings. Sometimes letting it out to someone else helps to validate your feelings and move on.

Answer 10

You may need to talk more about it with a very good friend or a counselor, especially if it is effecting your life on a deeper level. You may have not had proper closure.

Answer 11

I'll tell you how you get over it, you make french fries you put a lot of oil, then when he comes near you get it and you pour it all over he, with the boiling hot oil and everything.That will make you feel better.