I just broke with my boyfriend for 5yrs last November bcoz he admitted that he is cheatting on me, then last January he said that he wants me back and he already broke up with her so I gave him another chance but last February I found out that he is still with the girl so I broke up with him again... And now he is starting to call me and send me text messages again. He told me that he wants to tell me something important so I talk to him, then he told me that he still loves me and someday when tha time is right he is going to break up with his current girlfriend and that he is going to marry me... Am I supposed to believe him?
2006-06-07 15:29:53 · 20 answers · asked by Phoebe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He cheated once and you forgave him, you were an ANGEL. And he goes and cheats on you again? No, sweetie, he's just trying to get in your pants. Kick him to the curb and find someone who deserves to date an angel.
Good luck!
2006-06-07 15:33:07 · answer #1 · answered by xvivaladorkx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say sorry charlie, I am so busy can't find the time to meet up with you.
I agree once a cheater always a cheater. You deserve better than that. If he needs a ego boost I am sure he will find someone else to give it to him besides you.
Or maybe you knows you will take him back even if he cheats. Don't do it to yourself.
Get rid of the bad rubbish
2006-06-07 15:34:41 · answer #2 · answered by young at heart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well consider this. He is telling you that he loves you and wants to marry you and pretty much wants you to wait on standby until he breaks up with her.
No, please do not believe that man. He is playing you. He has already lied to you twice and now he is playing more games. Tell him not to call you again because all he is doing is trying to make sure you still have feelings for him so that he can come back to you whenever he wants to.
2006-06-07 15:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, I really am but he is just using you. He knows he can go and come back and you will be there. If a man loves you and wants to marry you he doesn't need to go and date someone else to figure it out. Do yourself a favor and dont talk to him anymore. I know its hard. I really do. But it will be much harder in the end if you dont. Would you have done this to him ?
2006-06-07 15:36:29 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl Please!!! Sounds to me that he is useing you as an insurance policy. The way it sounds is that he is stringing you along because he wants the best of both your worlds.What you should do is save the texts and show them to his current girl and tell her what is going on then you should kick that boy to the curb because hun there are better men out there that will love you for you and only you.
2006-06-07 15:39:34 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go find someone new. Maybe he just isn't sure who he should be with. Even so, that doesn't mean he deserves sympathy because he's confused, that just means that he doesn't truly love you. If he did, it would be an easy decision. I'm guessing the things he says to you, he is also saying to her. Don't believe him. Forget about him and move on.
2006-06-07 15:32:48 · answer #6 · answered by goshimwaycool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the time is right, he'll break up with the other girl? He's playing you for a fool. Do not believe him, move on with your life and find someone who deserves you.
2006-06-07 15:31:56 · answer #7 · answered by dragonfiredesire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is addicted to whatever you or other women give him. Free sex, affection, comfort... But he doesn't seem like a trustworthy guy. You already gave it a try, then one more. How many times before this guy really realizes what a jewel you are and realizes he missed his chance?
2006-06-07 15:35:31 · answer #8 · answered by ibelieveicanfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No of course not! Can't you see that he is manipulating you and clearly will never break up with his current girlfriend? Tell him to get lost and move on with your life! Love can make us lose our senses but you need to wake up and smell the coffee.
2006-06-07 15:33:36 · answer #9 · answered by Zoom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO - Goo ahead and play a game with him. Let him lust after u , but in return don't go back out with him, he is not worthy of u. Cheaters and liars are no good, u deserve better.
2006-06-07 15:34:27 · answer #10 · answered by angelalovin2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋