I am asian and notice that all my closest friends are either mexican, asian, black, samoan....anything but white. I know a few women who are white but we're not close. Not trying to be racist but is there some huge cultural gap between whites and all other races? It is amazing I married a caucasian man but can't even befriend a white female. I tried being nice and hospitable to caucasian women when I meet one but it just doesn't seem like there's any connection between us. I don't know why that is...any insite??
2006-06-07 15:26:11 · 5 answers · asked by Ana 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Don't worry about it.Maybe you don't have anything in common with them and there is nothing wrong with that.Stop "bending over backwards" to befriend them and just be yourself.
2006-06-07 15:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
wierd, because as a little girl I lived in a mixed nieghborhood (mostly black people) and I developed many close friendships.As I look back over my friends I never had as close of a friendship with white females as I have with black female friends
2006-06-07 23:21:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried going to church? you might be able to make some white female friends their. i am white and i married and Asian. right now we are living in japan. but when we come back to America we plan to visit church to make friends...if that is not your thing try to have a common interest, a sport, a book, or something...
2006-06-07 22:35:02 · answer #3 · answered by turntable 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am an Englishwoman and my best friend at school was called Shahnaz. You sound charming, I am sure that you just haven't met any nice white women looking to make new friends.
2006-06-08 13:46:58 · answer #4 · answered by Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably they have less moral values than you and your subconscious mind is protecting you from dealing with that people.
2006-06-08 14:34:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋