He sent it last night at 1:30am but I was asleep. I'd like him 2 B more specific as to what exactly he did that was so hurtful. He's being a coward because 1.He sent this as a TEXT MSG. & 2. He wasn't specific about what he did that hurt me so much. Granted, I AM VERY HURT for all of his lying & cheating & misleading & general BULLSH*T....but I want him 2 show me at least enuf respect & put into actual words that explain what he is talking about. I'd prefer he was man enuf 2 do this in person, but I'm not holding my breath. One option is 2 write back & say, "I have no idea what U R talking about...When or How did U hurt me?" but I don't want 2 "let him off easy" so that he never has 2 tell me what he is talking about..The thing is,he knows that Im TOTALLY HURT & I really wish that we were still together. But if I react with indifference, it could work in my favor. I know a lot of U R thinking, WHY would I even want 2B w/him, it's long story,just please help me w/how I should respond!!
2006-06-07 15:00:34 · 23 answers · asked by Beautiful Libra 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Text him back... "Be a man and actually apologize for something specific. And not on a text message."
2006-06-07 15:15:44 · answer #1 · answered by fullofsugaw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that the relationship didn't work out. The timing of the call would lead me to believe that his attack of conscience was chemically enhanced, whether it be alcohol or drugs or maybe it was just his libido. Nontheless, if you still want to be with him do not play games. Call him- but ask that he respect you enough to call you during decent hours and not treat you like a hoochie. Respect yourself girl. If you don't who will.
2006-06-07 15:53:48 · answer #2 · answered by lifeisgood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respond like this. Say I never wanted to hurt you either honey, that's why I never told you I've had a lover now for the last ten years. and he's so much better than you, and he's so much larger than you, and he gives better oral than you. that should take care of it.
2006-06-07 15:07:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't respond at all - why bother putting such a great deal of thought into something that is so yesterday.
Onwards and upwards, girl!
2006-06-07 15:04:55 · answer #4 · answered by LadyRebecca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't respond at all. Let it be over. Answering him will only open up the flood gates and you don't need that. Show him you are past it.
2006-06-07 15:02:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARE YOU A DUMB BLOND ??? OR JUST A FEMALE JERK ??? HE WANTS TO PUT YOU ON A LINE SO THAT WHEN HE WANTS YOU ALL HE HAS TO DO IS PULL ON THE ROPE. DUMP THIS GUY BEFORE HE REALLY PUTS A HURT ON YOU. IF YOU CAN SEE B/S IN HIM AND THE WAY HE ACTS AND TREATS YOU.......GOODBYE.........THERE ARE MORE FISH IN THE OCEAN, GOOD LUCK AND GOOD FISHING. IF YOU HAD SEX WITH HIM AND HE IS TREATING YOU LIKE A DUMMY THAT CAN'T THINK FOR HERSELF, YOU DEFINITELY NEED TO GET RID OF HIM.....GOOD LUCK....DAVE :>))
2006-06-07 16:16:03 · answer #6 · answered by David S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie it sounds to me that you know exactly what to say to him so just say it, don't worry about hurting his feelings.. Let him know that you won't put up with it anymore either!!
2006-06-07 15:06:32 · answer #7 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he asks, you didnt get the message and inquire then if you feel the need. Really be the bigger person and move on.
2006-06-07 15:04:07 · answer #8 · answered by lorihurley03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should shrug him off he know what he did and knows what he lost.He is just tring to get what he knows is good and faithfull.Erase the message and go on with your life.
2006-06-07 15:04:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not respond or even mention to anyone where it would get back to him that you even got it. Ignore it!
2006-06-07 15:04:41 · answer #10 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋