Would you give him another chance?

Question

He has cheated on me 4 times, We have a child together. Should I take him back?

Answer 1

If you truly feel that it is up to you, then make your decision based on your feelings, but remember to apply the entire story to your decision. In other words ... I have known people who have gone back to cheating spouses, and have built good relationships from them, but both people had to change from their selfish ways to ways that promoted selflessness. The more selfless they became, the better the relationship worked.

I'm not sure that will work ... I would tell you to follow your heart, but the heart is prone to evil and to the world. If it is not your fault that he cheated (which it never is), but you think you should take him back ... I would do it. Despite what the world teaches, infidelity by way of affairs is not the worse thing that can happen to a faithful spouse.

Be well, and Love with all of your heart. You're greatest reward is not on earth.

Answer 2

Having a child certainly didn't make your relationship better, now did it? Girl, I feel you I've been through it many times before with my children's father. What are you going to do when he gets another girl pregnant because it will happen eventually. Will you stay together then? What about when he gives you a disease, will you stay together then? This man isn't even thinking about the fact that you are the mother of his child and he could give you HIV by having sex with other women. Do you know if these women are disease free? Do you know for sure if he is using protection with this women? Time to get real girl and start thinking about your life and your child's life. You just might have to dump him.

Answer 3

HELL NO. Four times already? is that really the type of role model you want your child to grow up with? and what about your own happiness? children are a lot brighter than we think and can pick up on things much earlier than we are led to believe. Your child will grow up believing (1) it is ok to cheat on mommy; (2) mommy's will always tolerate daddy's cheating on them; (3) mommy's are supposed to always look sad and lonely and depressed. GET RID OF THE FU*KER ALREADY and be happy, even if it is by yourself for awhile. Stay strong and good luck!

Answer 4

first thing u have to look at is, does he give me and my child the neccessary? is he involved with ur child, is the home life good. cause if not then no, i mean u might be like oh my child is gonna suffer, but the child will suffer if u stay with him and argue all the time thats not a good enviornment. it will really hurt the child

Answer 5

NO BECAUSE HE WILL KEEP CHEATING ON YOU BECAUSE HE KNOWS YOU WILL TAKE HIM BACK. YOUR CHILD DOESNT DESERVE TO SEE THEIR MOTHER SAD AND HURT OVER SOMETHING THAT THEIR FATHER IS DOING TO HER. YOU DESERVE SO MUCH BETTER THAN WHAT HE IS DOING TO YOU. IF YOUR CHILD IS A GIRL DONT GIVE HER THAT EXAMPLE THAT IT IS OK FOR A MAN TO CHEAT ON HER OR IF YOU HAVE A SON THAT IT IS OK FOR HIM TO CHEAT OVER HIS WOMAN. YOUR KID PROBABLY DOESNT EVEN KNOW WHATS GOING ON RIGHT NOW BUT IF YOU CONTINUE TO ALLOW HIM BACK IN YOUR LIFE AFTER HE DECEIVES YOU YOUR CHILD WILL EVENTUALLY GET OLDER AND START UNDERSTANDING THE SITUATION. I THINK THAT YOU SHOULD BE STRONG FOR YOU AND YOUR CHILD AND JUST WALK AWAY FROM HIM.

Answer 6

No. you don't want to let your child think that this is the way how all relationship work. You have your future, don't mess up...it's only up to you.

Answer 7

yeah for the sake of the child

Answer 8

If you don't mind him cheating again, then take him back.

A cheater will always cheat...

Answer 9

no u have been taking this for to long u need to leave him A.S.A.P u have fufilled your wifely duties