I guess I am a little scared because I feel like there are guys that don;t want a girl wiht four kids. I look alot younger than 32 so I have alot of younger guys hitting on me but with my current situation I feel like when I do get a divorce that I will not be able to find anyone that isn't after a one night stand or a piece of *** on the side every once in awhile. If I wanted to be someone's weekend get you some I would stay with my somewhat of a husband and wait my turn after his other weekday or weekend get somes.
2006-06-07 14:22:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There are men, but not many in your age group. Older men, who are financially more secure and have more wisdom then men in their thirty's will be attracted to a woman like you. So look for that to happen. :)
2006-06-07 14:30:33 · answer #1 · answered by R man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I truly feel you are going to be disappointed. You are very right in thinking that they are just looking for a piece of ___. You really should be putting your mind to bringing up your four kids and not worrying about getting another man. This is a fact: Men are a lot like lions. They don't really care for other man's off spring. When they look at the children, all they can think of is another man doing you.
2006-06-07 14:29:50 · answer #2 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I couldn't take on four kids, but there are happily other men who will. There are many that do, I had a friend that did that, so they are out there.
Just keep your standards high, and don't settle for less. It's not just you, but your kids as well.
Just keep looking, he's out there.
Good luck,
By the way, I do like kids, just not on a 24/7 kind of thing that a dad has to be dedicated to, for his.
2006-06-07 14:28:26 · answer #3 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget HIS weekend getsomes, Time to get your own getsomes.... If you're getting divorced, the reason for it, is to go forward, not back. Big deal, you got 4 kids, and i'm sure they are great, heck. I've got 2. If they care and love you enough, it won't matter, as far as the "urges" go. Like i said, time for YOU, to start with the one nighters, instead of letting your ex think you still want his leftovers....UR better than that.
2006-06-07 14:33:23 · answer #4 · answered by ld48fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Won't be easy. Do you remember the saying about nobody buys the cow if is getting the milk for free? It is true. JUst be firm. If the guy ask and you say no and he leaves, he wasn't worth it. If he is willing to wait until you are ready, you know that, at least, he respects you. Good luck.
2006-06-07 14:31:42 · answer #5 · answered by elgil 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 Kids! The only other guy other than a miracle man would probably be the kind after your kids, a pedophile
2006-06-07 14:29:56 · answer #6 · answered by LadySov 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
few men would be, what with 4 kids, why would any man want to step into that? maybe someone who has nothing going for him, and has no self confidence might be attracted to you.. but then all he can expect is little attention as 4 kids pretty much ties up all your attention with little left for him
2006-06-07 14:29:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wut do you look like?
2006-06-07 14:25:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋