My Best friend knew that I still am in love with my ex, and she Promised me that she would never date him, and she did it anyway. do I have a right to be mad at her?
2006-06-07 14:17:39 · 13 answers · asked by alybear 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I want us to get back together, and he still tells me he loves me too. and NO, i didn't tell her it was ok to date him
2006-06-07 14:30:03 · update #1
I BET HE IS FUKKIN HER GOOD RIGHT NOW !!!
2006-06-07 14:24:14 · answer #1 · answered by zzzzz 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How did you find out about it? If she told you, actually confessed it, (doubt that tho) I'd say perhaps not. If she just snuck around, lied and up and DID it, hell yeah ya do!! What kind of a friend IS she, anyhow? She sounds selfish to me.. (sure wasn't thinking of you, was she?) Do you really want to work things out w/her? IF you do, you might do a little investigating (I know.. easier said than done).. I mean maybe he kinda 'came onto her?' Did you ever get vibes before he might do something like that..? like did he talk to her a whole lot (w/you around, even..) You need to do some serious thinking here. You sound pretty pissed off. If he's an 'ex' why'd ya break up w/him? If he broke up w/you and broke your heart, try and think up the most awful stuff ya can about him (hell, think 'his feet stink'.. I dunno) and that'll help ya get over the hurt a bit. (Everyone writes 'find someone else' but that can land ya in hot water too.. you go for someone else 'on the rebound'.. I got my second husband that way, ugh!) go'luck honey
2006-06-07 14:23:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohmigod you totally do! not even bc of the unwritten rule of never dating your friends ex (unless you get permission and even then its iffy...) but bc she broke a promise! this has happened to me twice (really three times since one of my friends started going out with him again) and each time it sucked(s). Try to save your friendship though b/c friends are forever and boyfriends are not.
2006-06-07 17:27:28 · answer #3 · answered by ~*Suz*~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well girls have a code we never date each others boyfriends ex or otherwise. Thats sad that she would do that.
2006-06-07 14:33:55 · answer #4 · answered by caritafilms 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HECK YES U DO she promised to u and broke the promise
2006-06-07 14:19:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes ... my cuz'n ****** my 1st and to this day i'm a lil mad... i'm about to b19 and that happened when i was 13 .... but do you have felling for him,for real way didn't you say something before this ... by mad but watch your back gurlly looks like a lier!
2006-06-07 14:23:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell Yeah!! a real friend would respect you and the friendship and leave him alone even if he is your ex
2006-06-07 16:12:18 · answer #7 · answered by Cutelipz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u have all the right in the world!! that isz an unwritten rule in the book of friendship!..never date yur best friends X!
2006-06-07 14:20:29 · answer #8 · answered by Shelly 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you can be mad but your not with him anymore. It was wrong for you friend to do that but your friend is with him now so get over it and move on. why you broke up with him. Does she know why you guys broke up. If its because he cheated then I don't know why she would date him if she knows he cheats.
2006-06-07 14:21:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh dear, a friend you say. She is not a friend to you, maybe visa-versa. It's time to make a new friend.
2006-06-07 14:22:24 · answer #10 · answered by wondering 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't have a right. You can't reserve him like that, and still have him as your ex.
2006-06-07 14:19:36 · answer #11 · answered by PermDude 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋