I have always liked girls and have like hetero porn. But for the last few weeks Ive been telling myself Im gay. I guess cuz Im bored and need somethin to worry about. I ve never wanted to kiss, make out or have sex with a man ever and could ever think of doin so. But when I watch a movie and a man shows up onscreen I force myself to take notice. Lately I dont do this anymore. I still like women and Im havin sex with one at the moment and dont have any plans to mess with a guy. So tell me am I gay or in the words of Sabbath am I "Paranoid"?
2006-06-07 13:26:49 · 28 answers · asked by CooleyH 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
you are so gay mon.
2006-06-07 13:29:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anthony 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I AM attracted to a certain type of females and find t-i-ts pretty hot. But I don't think i'm a lesbian [i'm a female] because liking a certain part of a female's body doesn't make me "something" or "other". And YOU ain't attracted to men nor dream of having sex with them. So, NO, you ain't gay. You are just being paranoid (and probably a little spoilt). And there isn't really anything to be paranoid about. Life is all about decisions. If you want to go ahead and screw a man, you can go ahead and screw a man. And if you want to be gay, be gay. But I doubt it would be a man's hand you'd be wanting to hold when you need to be intimate with someone in your sane non-hor-ny days. I doubt that very much. When you are ho-rny, it's different. I've been told 70% of a person's intelligence disappeares at that moment. So you might as well s-crew a dog, it won't matter. People rape their kids at such a time, ferChristake. That doesn't tell sh-it about them or you and doesn't make them or you good/bad, homo/hetro or even a rapist. It just shows you were a human in a really BAD situation. So.. yeah.. do it. BUT, believe you me, it won't feel natural and right afterwards. You'd hate and be digusted @ yourself, while in sc-crewing-a-woman's case, you'd simply wanna have some ciggie and go to sleep. And PLEASE, I BEG YOU, don't ask such kinds of questions in a gay room. Ofcourse everybody would tell you you are gay. They WANT you to be gay (sorry folks)
P.S. liking anal sex doesn't make you gay either, read Freud on that, there is lots and lots information regarding certain body parts and their "sexuality" in Freud's papers!
2006-06-08 06:48:23 · answer #2 · answered by Biqo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the sake of argument let's clarify "gayness" If at any time you are hanging out with a guy and whatever you're doing causes you to "bust a nut" then by all means, yes, you are truly completely, utterly, brokebackedly, Gay! Other than that you're pretty much a paranoid.dude, dude. BTW stop watching porn, you'll lose an eye or something.
2006-06-07 20:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by Damn those pink elephants! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with whoever said "Men won't admit it but they look at guys in porn too," Yes that is true I have a few guy friends and they talk about porn all the time and check out how big the dude's pecker is, and my guy friends are soo not gay!! Its normal. Everyone looks at each others junk, even if they dont admit it, women do the same thing. People are always comparing themselves to others, that's just how our society is. Your fine so don't sweat it!!
2006-06-08 02:28:38 · answer #4 · answered by mccamel1666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like you're gay. Not even a little. I don't think you'll have any luck converting to "gayness" either. If you need something to worry about, it sounds like you should watch less porn. Why do you want to be gay again? I'm confused. Sorry buddy, you sound like a straight guy. They won't admit it.but all guys look at the men in porn too.
2006-06-07 20:33:09 · answer #5 · answered by Afreida Spydurs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only gay if you think you are. If you don't think you are, then odds are you're not. There are degrees...levels of gayness. One person can be way on the left side....all gay, and another can be a little more into the middle area...bi...and then way at the other end for straight.
Don't sweat it. I think everyone at some point in their lives goes through something questionable when it comes to sex.
2006-06-07 20:32:21 · answer #6 · answered by Spencer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think you are gay or paranoid. Every human alive is bi-curious. I think you are just experimenting.
Have you ever thought maybe you are looking that male in the movie/porn just to learn from him. Just to see how he is doing? Have you ever seen someone does something from the movie and then went and tried it. Maybe it was a new position.
You would have to have a sexual attraction to the male. The male would have to turn you on sexual. Then you could ask yourself are you gay. Is that what you want. Do you want to have anal sex with a male. Do you want to have oral sex with a male. Do you want to kiss and have foreplay with a male.
2006-06-08 09:31:58 · answer #7 · answered by Dwayne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Paranoid
2006-06-08 16:49:06 · answer #8 · answered by CoCo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are gay if you have no desire for a male. Maybe you're so into males in porn because you takin notes or like how they screw females. But you say you are not atrrated or have you ever been so you sound lesbian to me...
lesbian porn is so misrepresented because lesbians dont really make love like that. There is so much more to it. than dildos and givin head
2006-06-07 21:06:35 · answer #9 · answered by jusslisten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm leaning toward paranoid.
Not saying you don't have a few issues that could use some working through, but I would guess, based on the information you provided, that you are probably not gay.
2006-06-07 22:35:21 · answer #10 · answered by Dustin Lochart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the gayest person ever.
I can't believe I witnessed this gayness.
Oh, by the way, Big Troy, you are totally gay, too. For someone who claims to not like gays, you spend an awful lot of time in this section. Later, sweet cheeks!
2006-06-07 21:14:03 · answer #11 · answered by huhwhat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋