We were together for a month and then a week later he goes with this skinny, pretty girl. How can i move on from him and stop faking being happy?
2006-06-07 13:23:18 · 16 answers · asked by La LoCa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
just move on a month is not enough time for you to be trippin like this...
2006-06-07 13:26:14 · answer #1 · answered by luv41anatha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. we've all been there, honey.. (It helps to know you got company.) I'm wondering as you mentioned somebody 'skinny.. pretty...' if you don't think you are as good as she? (That'd suck totally.. ) I don't know.. if he went with someone that wasn't good lookin' it's an 'insult' but if it's someone (we consider) 'better' it hurts too! (a no win situation, don't ya think? lol) Seriously, I am sure you are desperate (and I am guessing you are a teen, right? I'm an old dried up 53/F.) I been through this **** a l00 times, honey. It always sucks.. What I do (I've been typing this same advice for a week now..anyone following me?) is to NOT glorify the relationship if ya can help it. Imagine all the most AWFUL **** ya can (make up something.. hell, his feet stink!..I don't know..) and like laff thinking about it. Turn your thinking 'evil' I am thinking here.. ya gotten 'toughen' up (self preservation.) Time is the only thing that takes care of all this sorta ****.. IF you can find somebody else do it (but watch out for the 'rebound' effect.. I got stuck w/my second husband cause of an aborted marriage I had going.. ) Jesus! g'luck later melancholia P>S> Fake being happy more!!! it works!
2006-06-07 13:29:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be really happy that you found out that he was this way so soon. Now a month is realy not that long for you to be tripping like this but maybe you are a artistic person, they usually feel more than the regular. The best way to get over a guy is to fix your self up, buy some new clothes and get right back in the game. Start dating again
2006-06-07 13:31:13 · answer #3 · answered by Simply Put 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to forget him.
I would say get a friend to come with you and dump everything he ever gave you in his garden.
Then you tell everyone you are glad that you split up as you have grown up so much in the last month that you outgrew him.
DO NOT start searching for another boy friend as when the time is right they will find you.
Live life and enjoy.
Good luck.
2006-06-07 13:30:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No guy is worth your tears and there is so many guys out in the world why are you so cut up w/one guy? I just got over an ex myself and I went out with a few girlfriends and guyfriends and flirted tons a guys. So plan a date w/closest gals and have a good time and stop crying over him!
2006-06-07 13:38:31 · answer #5 · answered by miissj93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
REBOUND!!!!!! im going through the same thing. Its the reason I am afraid to start a new relationship every time,its traumatizing and sometimes I make a decision that I'd go to jail trying to mess up the people involved in my heartbreak.good luck!
2006-06-07 13:29:01 · answer #6 · answered by blondearies123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would look at it as if he left me for some skinny girl that i was way to good for him in the first place and i shouldnt of been with him and try to find someone esle that will like me or love me how i am and wouldnt dare of thinkin of leaving me for some skinny chick
2006-06-07 13:28:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about how triflin he is. getting a new b/f isn't going to exactly do the job unless you magically fall in love with the next dude trust me i goin through that crap right now
2006-06-07 13:33:13 · answer #8 · answered by Jojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as your happy get out their and find a better man girl, their are plenty out here. I'm sure you can get a better one and then you'll really be happy.
2006-06-07 13:27:42 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling...:( Give it time, and I promise, you won't miss him AT ALL.
Treat yourself to comfort food...Get your nails done, get a new haircut.
Sometimes the way to forget about a breakup is by pampering yourself. :)
2006-06-07 14:12:39 · answer #10 · answered by sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋