I Met up with an ex of mine a couple weeks ago .
At fisrt I didnt recognize him but then he said u remember me.
We talked for a long time. He said he still dont know why we ever called it quits. Then I met his girlfriend!!!
He told me he wanted to be with me and I make him happy .
I dont know what to do.
2006-06-07 13:21:28 · 14 answers · asked by amber 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
so tell me why are you even considering him back if you met his g/f....forget him...
2006-06-07 13:25:42 · answer #1 · answered by melissa D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, for God's sakes, girl.........Stop the insanity! When are you going to learn that you cannot "make" someone happy?.......DUH!!!! He is an ex----move on and stop buying into these guys! I am afraid that you need some relationship counseling if you even have the thought of going back to this schmuck! Women like you make us women who have standards look bad. Hold you head up high......and do something construcive with your life and forget the concept that you can "make someone happy"......Geeeeesh!!!
2006-06-07 20:28:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
remain as friends and do not pursue it until YOU know that the relationship is over between him and his girlfriend. I think once he has a girlfriend then that means that you will always be the third wheel because you were the ex. Don't do it because you feeling will get hurt.
2006-06-07 20:27:34 · answer #3 · answered by zakaramommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to yourself, he must not of been very good to you as you said you didnt reconize him, or remembered him, and obiviously if he doesent even know why you" guys called it quits"you must not of mattered enough to him for him to ask you why.Sweetheart, he has a GIRLFRIEND! and probely you were his girlfriend when he met up with his other ex. no dont go for it how would you like it if that happened to you.
2006-06-07 20:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by dwtnjuliebrown1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he lying and he is probably ahving some trouble in his relationship right now. i wouldnt get caught up in that. if he means what he says then he would leave his girtlfriend and make sure there are no ties to persue a relationship with you...
2006-06-07 20:25:25 · answer #5 · answered by luv41anatha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your married I say NO.......... dont do it........ if you are not, I still say back off......... let him take care of the relationship he is in........ if he breaks if off with the g/f and calls then the feild is wide open....... do not be the cause of the break up....... how would you feel if it were you ??? God bless
2006-06-07 20:25:12 · answer #6 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to him he obviously moved on adn made his choice.. its too late for take backs! Unless you really love him.... then I dont know what you should do, its up to you. How long have you been broken up also???
2006-06-07 20:27:13 · answer #7 · answered by ChrissyLicious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 1 he made u meet his gf if he didnt tell u that he had moved on & now wants he's totally going to cheat. i say dump him and sy i've moved on
2006-06-07 20:25:28 · answer #8 · answered by Khadijah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. If he wanted to be with you he would have contacted you soon after your break-up. Move on.
2006-06-07 20:24:14 · answer #9 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like hes playing u, if u dont mind sharing him with his new g/f then go for it
2006-06-07 20:25:29 · answer #10 · answered by Jim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him happy, there is not enough happy people in this world.lf you can make him happy he might even make you happy.
2006-06-07 20:54:07 · answer #11 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋