2006-06-07 13:21:27 · 20 answers · asked by brandonek@sbcglobal.net 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you feel it's OK to do run with it...if you feel uncomfortable with the situation...let them know as soon as possible, don't lead them on!
2006-06-07 13:25:00 · answer #1 · answered by joy ride 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to make out with him/her? If you do -- go for it. If not, don't. Explain you aren't interested but that you love him/her as a friend and would like to stay one.
Most of the time that is enough.
And it doesn't matter what gender the person OR you are. It's just what you want, ignore the idiots.
Reyn
2006-06-07 14:18:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm speaking from the best friend point of view - tell them no. Explain this: I am not attracted to you in that way. If they persist, tell them to back off, and if they continue, back off yourself, and get away from that person for a little while.
They'll get over it, however much it may sting, but -true- friends realize that their friend isn't comfortable with it, and shouldn't push.
2006-06-08 04:26:04 · answer #3 · answered by Kage D, 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the situation, but sometimes best friends can make the best spouses.
2006-06-07 13:25:16 · answer #4 · answered by ekaty84 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in this exact situation about 10 years ago with my best friend from high school. she asked me if i had ever kissed a girl and since i hadn't, i was hesitant to even answer her, but i really wanted to kiss her too. finally we clumsily kissed and that ended up being one of the most memorable evenings of my sexual life!
in short, if you're attracted to the person, go for it. if you're not, let them know soon so that you're not leading them on because you could porentially ruin a great friendship.
2006-06-08 02:58:30 · answer #5 · answered by water_loves_fire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really need help with this question? If you want to make out with this person (and you are close in age) then do so. If you don't want to then do not do it. If you are unsure then talk to that person about it. If you think you want to then change your mind, you can change your mind and stop right then. It's your choice.
2006-06-07 16:40:21 · answer #6 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I you you want it go for it. If it makes you feel uncomfortable then just say no.
2006-06-07 16:14:58 · answer #7 · answered by T. Emopire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if YOU, not just your friend, want to. then Yes. have fun a take a chance, they come very seldom in life.
2006-06-07 16:25:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly make out, if its she... but if he, I think I could use a couple of punches.
2006-06-07 15:36:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them it is not worth messing up a perfectly good relationship for a temporary fling
2006-06-07 13:24:57 · answer #10 · answered by itsybitsykity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋