How do you deal with people who suddenly started to ignore you? Please help me, I can't understand why. I feel so sad because I didn't really do anything, yet I'm being given the cold shoulder... What can I do? Can you give me constructive suggestions, not ones that aggravate the problem? Thanks!
2006-06-07 13:20:43 · 6 answers · asked by Merlin 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if it bugs you that much, than maybe you should go and talk to the person and find out why he/she is ignoring you, or you can just win them over with your kndness and pretend you havnt noticed that they ignoring you, it worked for me.
2006-06-07 13:26:13 · answer #1 · answered by sexybabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say exactly how you were being ignored. Is this person just not calling you and including you in things that they used to include you with.
Did the person just get a new boyfriend or girlfriend and is spending time with them?
Or is the person just walking by you without speaking, like in school, office, etc????
If it's the later, don't worry about them. Find yourself someone else to talk to. But if they've gotten a new love, then you have to give them a little room for a while. It's probably nothing personal. But don't say anything bad about their new friend.
Hope this helps.
2006-06-07 13:30:20 · answer #2 · answered by Jennyee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the age group, but the person/people who are doing it may be trying to make you feel bad or get attention to make you run after them and grovel to get them back. In that case, ignore them completely until they get tired of it.
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Talk to the person directly. Explain to (lets call him/her "it" for now) it you are feeling like you are being ignored and you don't understand why, and politely and firmly ask why. If they don't give an answer or make up excuses, turn and walk away. Then there's nothing more you can do
2006-06-07 13:22:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are we talking about a group or an individual? if its one person they probably have the problem so just be their for them till they come round.
if its a group of people you may have committed some fax pass and your gonna have to find out what that was.
2006-06-07 13:24:43 · answer #4 · answered by drunkredneck45 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them back.... If you arent getting a response then maybe you should take the hint and leave the person alone!
2006-06-07 13:23:47 · answer #5 · answered by ChrissyLicious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore them. nothing will bother them worse.
2006-06-07 13:23:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋