How do you deal with people who suddenly started to ignore you? Please help me, I can't understand why. I feel so sad because I didn't really do anything, yet I'm being given the cold shoulder... What can I do?
2006-06-07 13:11:50 · 14 answers · asked by Merlin 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You had a fantastic best answer to another question. I would use it here: Behind every jerk lies a story. You may never understand what the issue is, it may be because of you-or them. Think about it, decide if a conversation (not confrontation) about it is in order, then flesh it out and/or move on.
2006-06-07 13:20:01 · answer #1 · answered by brother 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being ignored by someone can and is worse than if they were you're enemy. At least then you know where you stand. They are either for you or against you, but the mediocore inbetween can be a nightmare. If there was no confrontation, and the actions still resulted the other person probably freeked out because they said more than they wanted to say. Probably embarassed. Just move on. You'll get over it.
2006-06-07 20:21:11 · answer #2 · answered by Irish 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey!.. same thing is happening to ME right now.. (and I'm 53/F and I'm guessin' you're kinda young.. teens maybe?) Don't be sad over it, honey.. It hurts like hell.. I know.. I think I'm nice to someone (just was .. guy across town I had a half a crush on) and BOOM then he lowered the whammy on me (and now it is actually hurting me MORE he isn't talking.) I guess we're all been there.. (helps to know you got 'company' sometimes..) Is it really important to know why? (yes, I guess it is.) You need to (I need to too) think up some BAD **** (make it up if ya have to.. hell, his 'feet smell' I don't know) about him mentally and laff at him!! That helps.. trust me! I know.. When someone does this kinda **** to us we tend to 'glamorize' the relationship we had w/em. (I"m doing that right now.. this guy I'M all disappointed out.. the asshole.. he's a fat-assed bald cheating husband.. and he's got balls enuff to try and screw ME up?!? stupid jerk!) see?it's easy! You do it!.. lol.. g'luck (you sound pretty 'busted up'.. it'll be better.. trust me..) later (melancholia)
2006-06-07 20:17:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont waste youre time forcusing on those people. Maybe you should ask them why them do that, and ignore them yourself move on find some other friends.
2006-06-07 20:16:15 · answer #4 · answered by It's my life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore dem back! ppl jus do dat 4 attention...n if u act like u dont care bout dem den evetually dey'll start talkin 2 u again i gess
2006-06-07 20:14:36 · answer #5 · answered by mimorcy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to get them to notice you is if you ignore them right back and get to meet nicer people.you might not need them in yor life
2006-06-07 20:15:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life..if someone ignores you, move on....it is not that important
2006-06-07 20:15:17 · answer #7 · answered by Feisty AKA Mrs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go on with your life
2006-06-07 20:20:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore them ignoring u
2006-06-07 20:14:25 · answer #9 · answered by The Reason 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore them back...it works, they will soon stop ignoring you becuz no one likes being ignored.
2006-06-07 20:15:56 · answer #10 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋