Imean, sure i get asked out alot, but none that iam interested in dating. smeone please give me a real answer.
2006-06-07 13:04:40 · 24 answers · asked by XxShayxX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
okay okay, iam not stupid, and i do have a great personatlity, and if i wanted 2 be judged by idiots, i wldnt have posted the question!
2006-06-07 13:19:46 · update #1
You have to let the guys that you like know you like them, be out going, and make sure that they know that your all that stuff you listed, also if you want to talk to me check my profile for my email mate.
2006-06-07 13:08:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a psychological thing at work here. Most guys would be afraid to approach an attractive woman because they are afraid of rejection. If a beautiful woman rejects a guy his hopes are lost and his ego is shattered. So instead, he has no fear of approaching an UN-attractive woman, because if she rejects him, so what? He was not all physically attracted to her so it is no big loss.
There have been studies written up on this, and the conclusion is that unattractive women actually get many more dates than beautiful ones because guys are afraid of being rejected by the attractive ones and don't care about the ugly ones.
So there is nothing wrong with you, it's the silly guys and their funny egos. Just try being friendly with one you like and see what happens.
2006-06-07 20:22:34 · answer #2 · answered by Kokopelli 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you're setting an unreasonable standard or your attributes have intimidated guys. Maybe you should give one of the guys you've rejected a shot. They'll treat you better than most of the hot guys you might be interested in ... they'll try harder to make you happy and they'll treat you better for fear of losing you. A good-looking player of a guy may make a great trophy, but these guys are often narcissists who go through girls like toilet paper because they can.
You didn't mention your age, but often the nicest good looking guys are older than the middle school/high school set.
2006-06-07 20:10:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The right guy just hasn't come along yet. A lot of guys that you might like, might be afraid to approach you. My fiance' tells me that I seemed "out of his league" - it took striking up a friendship and getting to know each other for a long time before we finally ever went out. So, if you see a guy that you think you would like, approach him, you don't have to make the first moves beyond just being friendly and chatting with him, but let him see you are approachable. If you haven't found that guy that you want to talk to yet, then just be patient, it will happen.
2006-06-07 20:09:45 · answer #4 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are not realistic. You have to choose who to date from who you know. The chances of a hot rich guy are pretty slim. I knew a woman that waited for that kind of guy into her late 30's, she married a local car mechanic. She used to tell me how growing up her parents told her they would kill her if she had sex, and then sometime in her twenties were like, alright already, get married. She even stayed a virgin until she got married, but no hot rich guy was every for her.
2006-06-07 20:09:28 · answer #5 · answered by yars232c 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get me wrong here but I think maybe you need to have more confidence in yourself as other people try to help you out. God as a time for everyone so don't just go rushing out there now. When the time is right you will meet your prince.
2006-06-07 20:09:01 · answer #6 · answered by mjblic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are stuck on yourself, have no depth, sees no one but yourself and has very poor skills with the English language. All your looks and being "smart and pretty" will get you a one way ticket to no where. Wise up, missy, and realize that beauty is on the inside..........not on the outside!
2006-06-07 20:11:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is probably because you are looking at the wrong place. You will not find anyone on-line who knows how you look and how you are.
Even if you are looking elsewhere, no one can answer you here why you don't find a nice, good looking guy. So, Ask your friends who know how you look and your personality as well.
2006-06-07 20:07:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a good looking guy myself, the same thing happens to me.
Most people get intimidated by a good looking person that's just the way it is. You have to be the agressive one in this case.
2006-06-07 20:17:27 · answer #9 · answered by Karlao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are truly beautiful some guys can be intimidated by that. Which means cocky jerks probably ask you out. You are in control, you should be proactive and let the guys that you like know it.
2006-06-07 20:08:33 · answer #10 · answered by -Uriah- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋