2006-06-07 12:57:14 · 11 answers · asked by EC 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you do not stoke the fires of course the fireplace went cold. Are you attentive in and out of bed? Do you just want the between the sheets action or do you take time out for what she likes. Have you thought up anything new to try and I don't mean telling her to suck your dick either. Do you send flowers? Have you ever written her a song or a poem? Do you ever do the dishes without being asked? Pick up your dirty clothes? Offer to take over some chore for her?
All these things will put the fire back in that fireplace faster than you can open a pack of marshmellows if you would give them a wholehearted try.
2006-06-07 13:02:22 · answer #1 · answered by digimutt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its gone who let the ball slide?
If nothing else is wrong then you start doing the things that got you to love her in the first place,, court her, love her, do things that aren't part of this scheduled life you fell into.
The feelings will soon come back if your doing the actions.
2006-06-07 13:00:19 · answer #2 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put your thinking cap on sweetie...Try doing something that your WIFE enjoys, not just YOU..Take her out, send her flowers, talk to her......Help her with the kids, give her a hug, just because..Buy her an unexpected gift....Compliment her more..stop criticizing her for minor things...Cook dinner for her..Pick up your clothes, put the toilet seat down, wear some sexy drawers, buy her some sexy drawers...Suck her toes, bathe her, get some viagra.........Plan a vacation...
2006-06-07 13:02:39 · answer #3 · answered by Feisty AKA Mrs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about trying different role playing? or trying something that the other person likes but you don't care for. or being opposite of how you usually make love. if you are all passionate, slow, and romantic, try being aggressive and just tear some **** up.
2006-06-07 13:02:28 · answer #4 · answered by blackchina46h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this. Write out your fantasy's and have your wife do it as well. Mail the letters to each other,and read them privately. Then surprise each other by bringing the fantasy alive(or come as close as you can, if it is really wild)
2006-06-07 13:05:34 · answer #5 · answered by sly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy some toys or get you a toyboy on the side. this is only if you want to stay other than that leave. men figure if they dont get any pleasure then you cant either. probably still quite capable of using his hands and mouth but if he cant get off then neither will you...
2006-06-07 13:02:17 · answer #6 · answered by luv41anatha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its called life. our minds and bodies get use to the same smells and tastes. we are built like that, who knows why, maybe to see if we really love that person and are forced to focus on other things other than sex. everything gets old. don't ever cheat. it will ruen your life. and it will just end up the same with the next person. do you love and adore this person? do they treat you well? then hang in there.
2006-06-07 13:22:42 · answer #7 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better find it! Sometimes you have to sit back and remember how you got where you are. You have to backtrack and find a time when things were good, and learn from that.
2006-06-07 13:03:16 · answer #8 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for u or ur wife???
u??
will i dont know u got to help urself.
ur wife??
try and give it some life.
flowers.
dinner.
all the stuff u did when u were dating.
2006-06-07 13:01:41 · answer #9 · answered by Nita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to hot have sex for 2 mos or more.. 4 sure ull miss her..
2006-06-07 13:00:48 · answer #10 · answered by baby_zach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋