What is wrong with me..Ladies only please!?

Question

For the past 3 years i have had some serious reproductive problems and i have never had this problem before. i will be 22 years old and i am trying to have a child that i can actually carry full term, but i cant seem to get pregnant anymore! i get somewhat regular cycles. i have even tried changing diets, exercise routines, and eating certain foods and sexual positions!!! what is wrong with me. also through the years i have had infections that my body creates on its own! my doc said this was due to hormones, i have had 4 miscarriges. over this span as well. it seems like i am alwasy sick and tired and can never get enough sleep. when my hubby ejaculates inside me i feel very sick afterwards or some time later or the nexy day my pelvic bone hurts or my stomach hurts. does anyone have the same problem , i have waisted thousands of dollars at doctors, nurses, specialitsts. and i am broke!!! are there any home remedies, anything please im depserate

Answer 1

have they checked u for cancer...i may have cervical cancer and probably wont have anymore kids. try not trying to have a child..not thinking about having a child may make you more into it and i have heard of a lot of people trying too hard... has your hubby gotten checked it may be something wrong with him...and there is always adoption and foster care...with all the money you spent on docs telling you nothing you could have already had a child that really needs a loving family...good luck

Answer 2

You sound like you could have a few different things. When you mentioned infertility and "somewhat regular cycles," the first thing that came to my mind (because I have it) was PCOS, polycystic ovarian syndrome. Women with PCOS usually do not ovulate properly, which causes them to have irregular periods and difficulty conceiving. They also have an overabundance of male hormones. Some women with PCOS are also prone to miscarriages. Although it affects 5-10% of women, some doctors really don't know much about it. Other symptoms can include acne, thinning hair, male-pattern hair growth, and being overweight. However, not all of us have all of those symptoms. The best way to diagnose PCOS is to have your hormone levels checked via blood tests. Women with PCOS sometimes need medication to help them ovulate before they can get pregnant.

The pain that you mention, however, could be indicative of endometriosis. The main symptom of endometriosis is pain--pain before or during periods, pain when using the toilet, pain during or after sex. Women with endometriosis can also have fertility problems. It's possible to have both PCOS and endometriosis as well.

Finally, and this is probably a long shot, you could be allergic to your husband's semen. This isn't common but it is possible. The easiest way to tell if this could be the case is to have sex with a condom on and see if you still have pain. If the pain goes away, then that might be your problem.

Answer 3

Have you been checked for endometriosis -- that can be very painful and make you sick during/after intercourse; and destroy your health ... Sounds like your doctors are not taking your conditions seriously.

There isn't enough detail about these infections or hormone issues; but if this involves miscarriages -- only a good diagnostician can help. If you've had bad experience with doctors, the only recourse is more doctors.

Right now the most important thing is to rely on a good friend or relative to help you get through this and sort it all out.

Answer 4

Start taking folic acid and prenatal vitamins. I was told I was never going to have children again after hemorraghing and needing a blood transfusion when I had a LEEP procedure done (cervical biopsy procedure)at age 25. I began taking folic acid and drinking a ton of green tea. I met my husband later the next year and to my surprise I had gotten pregnant with my now 6 month old daughter. Another thing you may want to consider is you may possibly be allergic to your husbands sperm (not a joke it's possible to be allergic to sperm). Sadly, there are a number of problems us women have with our reproductive systems. Do some research on all kinds of possibilities and learn learn learn your own body!

Answer 5

This is very rare, but some women are actually allergic to their husband's semen. I just wondered if this might be a possibility since you say you feel sick after he ejaculates inside you. Also, have you had your thyroid checked? It's a simple blood test. Good Luck, I hope you can have a baby soon.
Don't rule out adoption, I'm adopted!

Answer 6

My family has a history of miscarriages. I myself have had one. Try getting the ovulation test. As for the sex, you're husband may be too big for you. Ask him to try not going in too deep. Trust me it works. He is probably hitting the top of you're vaginal wall. Unfortunately, the infections have played havok on your body. Save up you're money and have both of you tested to see if one of you are sterile. Nature will take its course when you're body is ready. I hope you find the baby you want, whether it's through pregnancy or adoption.

Answer 7

Maybe you're doing too much to try to get pregnant. It's possible that by switching your diet/exercise/etc you are stressing your body. The people that get pregnant the easiest seem to be those that don't focus on it. Good luck!

Answer 8

Try doing aome research on some herbs. There's two that I know can help you. Evening primrose oil and Vitex (Chaste Berry). I've heard positive things about these herbs and have recently started taking them both this past week.