he's always hanging out with his friends that cheat
always sending me home
leaves me at his house by myself
got a new phone and i cant even touch it
hides his phone when he goes to sleep
he received a copy of his phone records and burnt them up after he read them so i wont see
doesnt care when i say that we are not working out and i am on a virge of leaving him
says mean things to me about personal things
only time we are close is when we have sex
when i approach him about our problems in our relationship he says he doesnt have time to here me
hits me
split emotions
rather be with friends then with me
talk bad about me to his friends in front of my face
when we had this argument he called and told me that he was talking to some girl i told him i didnt believe him he called her on 3way and let me listen
he disrespects me
never wants to leave my side when i have money
calls me names
embarasses me in front of his family
we have not been out since he got off of probatio
2006-06-07 11:40:13 · 10 answers · asked by Loretta K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Get the hell away from this guy.
If he's on probabtion, he'll eventually end up in jail.
Time to raise the bar on the type of guys you are looking at - time to drop the ghetto attitude and look for a good guy with class.
The nice guy might be a bit "boring" for you, but at least he won't get drunk and beat you up, and end up leaving you to raise 4 kids by yourself.
2006-06-07 11:42:31 · answer #1 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't get back those 19 months but you can make every minute of the future and present count! Probation? Disrespects you? Talks bad to your face? Embarasses you in front of family? Only close when you have sex?
You knew where this was going when you wrote this, didn't you? Get out while you still have some semblance of self respect left my dear.
There's no "suspect he might do something to affect the relationship." He IS doing, has done, and will keep doing those things. Make it clean and fast, hopefully it will hurt less.
2006-06-07 11:45:15 · answer #2 · answered by UnrealJuju 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh girl u gotta leave him u deserve way better than that and if u don't know thats abuse if he loved u and wanted to be with u he wouldn't treat u that way. Because love don't make u cry or hurt ur feelings. I know it maybe hard but leave him he just using be smarter than him and found somebody who will treat u like a queen.If u wanna talk u can im me at that_thick_chick17 on yahoo.
2006-06-07 11:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by damn_that_chick_thick17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your answer lies within the text you have written. Do you want to foster a relationship built on Bulling, lies and deceit?
There are plenty of men who are sensitive, honest and faithful. Do not waste your life on someone who cares for no one but them self.
Break up now as the longer you wait the worse off you will be.
Care about yourself first, then find others who will also genuinely care for you.
2006-06-07 11:48:27 · answer #4 · answered by Mordak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave. Now. If you can't, and I know it's hard, but it won't stop. Being in an abusive relationship is stupid and you know it. Get out now. I have no pity for you if you stay. Leaving you are stronger and happier. Don't be stupid.
2006-06-07 11:43:17 · answer #5 · answered by weebat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave his a$$ and don't look back. And then seek professional help to improve your self esteem. No one deserves to be treated the way he's treating you.
2006-06-07 11:53:48 · answer #6 · answered by lildwahine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you....dense ? get the hell out of the relationship and go find someone who's going to be good to you. you don't need to be with a guy that does all that crap to you. tell him to take a flying leap and then move on
2006-06-07 11:44:39 · answer #7 · answered by raylie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're sick, dump his sorry *** before it's too late. you should know that i mean common this is the 21st century. ain't no letting any guy hit you, you hit him back. dump him fast, tell him to drop dead and kiss your *** good bye. how could he do that to you, you deserve more and more. DUMP HIM FAST.
2006-06-07 11:44:12 · answer #8 · answered by jamie d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going to tell u what I did call cheaters on his ***
2006-06-07 11:43:53 · answer #9 · answered by dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One word... Leave.
2006-06-07 11:44:24 · answer #10 · answered by carolinaz_most_wanted85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋