for guys: first?

Question

if you have had sex with a guy did it hurt? how was it? describe with details please. because i need to know so when it happens what it will be like.

Answer 1

Ignore this bible bashing f*ckwit above me. Go for it mate it only hurts the first few times....

Answer 2

I know it hurt me terribly the first couple of times and after that it got easier. But you have to understand that the pain is a part of it. My first few times were very sensual and I had a really good time. I found that I am more of a Top than a bottom. But it all depends on the other person too. You will find out if you are a Top or Bottom after you do have s.ex for the first time.
Remember to always use protection no matter what the other person says. This is very important! Remember never to share drugs or use them. Always play it safe and don't get attached to quickly. I am 26 now and I have been through this since I was very young and one I can say is that there is no rush. Take your time. Don't just have s.ex to have it. Make sure it is with someone you trust. Make sure you're of a decent age in case of legalities.
Also Radagast is right. Good Book for all the details and be sure to go slow. Sometimes things may tear or rip. Be careful.

I hope I was a help. Good luck in your future.

Answer 3

Don't listen to the first guy. I'm a saved christian.
Anyway, I'm a bisexual and I haven't had a d*ck in my anus yet. But, I have put it in other guys before. It hurts both of us, at first. Once the pain is replaced by pleasure, it's incredible. Just be sure to use a lot of lubricant, or it will hurt much longer. My d*ck is only 6" long, so the pain didn't last long for me. If you want, I can give it to you first, to let you see how it feels. I also like sucking d*ck and tasting c*um.
P.S.How old are you???

Answer 4

Hi, I am assuming from your question you are asking about anal sex, which can hurt, unless you are careful, the first time. The first thing is, do not be pressured into doing anything before YOU are ready. There are many ways to express sexual feelings other than anal penetration, and there are many ways to express affection other than sex. There is a book called, "The Joy of Gay Sex," you can get it as an e-book (http://www.diesel-ebooks.com/cgi-bin/category.cgi?item=parent-0060012730) or as a hard copy from Amazon or other on-line stores. It's a little old, but it does cover most the sexual practices. If you are really determined on anal sex, make sure you and your partner know what you are doing, try this site for a start:
http://sexuality.about.com/od/analplay/a/analplay101.htm
Of course, whatever you decide to do always follow a safe sex guideline to protect both your partner and yourself. Here is a site with lots of links on safe sex, find one that suits you:
http://hivinsite.ucsf.edu/InSite.jsp?page=li-07-11
good luck

Answer 5

Ignore the biblio-idolator firstly -- I would direct said idolator to the site I maintain, the URL is in my signature lines. When he can explain just the handful of errors that I show in the Bible on the three pages under the Bible heading in the left-hand menu (with proof, not with human reasoning and excuses) -- then he can at least rise to the level of having a rational conversation -- until then, its not worth your time or anyone else's to worry about him.

That said, I presume you mean getting "f***ked. If you do, may I suggest the book "The Joy of Gay Sex" to you. It can hurt the first time. You should use lots of lube and do it with someone you really care about so that they will go slowly and be careful.

It can be very enjoyable, even the first time, if they rim you first (lick you thoroughly in that area) and use a lot of lube and enter very slowly, stopping or withdrawing when you want them to. It can take a half hour to get them in and comfortable. Then they can do what you both want -- and it will get easier with time.

Good luck, email me if you need to talk.

Reynolds Jones
Schenectady, NY
http://www.rebuff.org

Answer 6

It is ALL mental. And some physical. You have to be WILLING to do it. You have to WANT to do it. As soon as it happens. It might be the GREATEST feeling in your life. However there is the chance if you do not allow it, and want it there might be some discomfort.

Find a great lubrication.

There was one time with my second boyfriend who was about 10 inches long. He entered me with NOTHING. That is how much I wanted it, and how much I loved him. No I am not stretched out like a whore. My first boyfriend was small. Even with him I need to use a lube.

Answer 7

I agree with Xemnas. It all depends on who you are with, what experience that you have in this sort of things. If it's a first time for both of you. Go slow and take the time to explore each others bodys. Your first time shouldn't be with some pain Master that's going to tear you up. If it's a friend and you have trust in him. Then, take it slow and enjoy every last moment. Good luck, have fun, & play safe.

Answer 8

It depends on what you do and what position you're in and how experienced the other guy is... I would recommend "the Joy of Gay Sex" or similar books on how you can prepare for your first time and what to expect. Pain gives way to pleasure pretty easily!

And most importantly, play safe and don't rush it! Get to know him and make sure you know what you're getting into.

Answer 9

Ignore that homophobe. I can't really tell you anything about experience with another man, because I haven't had any. I think that you should be free to do what you want in the privacy of your own home.

Answer 10

I can hurt, but you can use progressively bigger toys. This'll stretch things out back there. The other key, is to relax. When it hurts, it's usually because the muscle is tensed up.