whats wrong with me?

Question

ok i am funny but not popular but a great personality why dont guys like me

Answer 1

Because all guyz suck, don't change yr personality for no one.

Answer 2

kinda open-ended question no?
I don't know you so advice is hard to give... staying with the generic guidelines I would suggest that "what is wrong with you?" is your approach.

Are you speaking with people? Are you outgoing? A great personality is only appreciated when you step out of your shell and share it.

Be cautious with this advice, don't throw yourself at people and force them to hear all about you. Find an environment where a few people already know and like you and can introduce you around or a place where you feel comfortable and start a conversation of three. The less expectation you have about people liking you the easier it is to approach others.

And my final bit of Dr. Laura advice is the hardest to swallow...
Guys may not like you because you aren't approaching the right kind of guys. Spend sometime on this thought and decide if I am right or wrong.

Hope that helps.

Answer 3

WEll, like someone else said, they don't look at your personality. All they are loloking at is your looks and popularity. I'm sure you have a great personality, but no one takes the time to see it. Maybe if you took the time to mingle, and meet/ talk todifferent people (like guys!) then people would start to notice your personality. One day, you are going to become this great person and everyonewill want you!

Answer 4

Girls are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree. The boys dont want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't as good,but easy. So the apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when
in reality, they're amazing. They just have to wait for the right boy to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the
way to the top of the tree.


Hope this helped, Good luck

Answer 5

Don't worry about it, if guys can't see you for who you are, then they are not worth being around, trust me. I have had many bad relationships before with guys that just want to go out with popular girls, but went out with me to make someone else jealous. Right now, I am in college, and I have found someone just great. He respects me and cares for me, he's preceptive enough to tell (when we are talking on IM), that I'm tired, and suggests that I go to bed.
Trust me, you will find the right guy out there for you. It may seem like it will take a while, but when you find someone, you will know it.

Plus, I don't know how old you are, but most guys are immature at any age. ;-)

Answer 6

Forget about being nice just to attract a guy. Being popular or beautiful are the superficial issues which mislead the real objectives of life. Focus on the simple things and you will succeed

Answer 7

It not you guy's have a hard time understanding girls. They really think ignoring use is cool. Be confident in your self the time will come when guy's will be all over then your wonder if they are serious about you or just want something from you.

Answer 8

ok first of all there is nothing wrong with you. There are tons of girls who are dealing with the same thing u r. it's ok hang in there i'm sure there's a great guy waiting to meet u.

Answer 9

well there could be a lot of reasons maybe you have bad style for that you can try a makeover or maybe your looking for the wrong kind of guys but don't worry nothing is wrong with you but if you have low selfesteem they can tell so maybe try a makeover for a boost in confidence but trust me you'll find some one

Answer 10

there is probably nothing wrong with you, dear. Are you trying too hard? Have a near friend help you analyze if you really are a turn off to the boys, but I bet not.

Answer 11

Well, just be yourself and if that doesn't work then try to get a guy to be your friend I would suggest you get someone who has most of your same personalities.