my best friend is going out with this guy who is an asshole and she is starting to ditch her friends for him and every one is getting mad at her for this i tried tyo talk tyo her about it but she will always say its not my falt... Since everyone is mad at her she mostly only hangs out with me and him but i can't stand him cuz he is not even 16 and he is a drunk!!!! my frioend will not listen to me and if i stop being friends with her she will have no friends what should i do??
2006-06-07 11:33:05 · 10 answers · asked by countrybitc89 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ask her:
" Hey, ______, your boyfriend is an asshole, he's drunk, he's stupid and he's pathetic. You dumbed alomost all of your friend just for this worthless guy. So you choose between me, your best friend or your b-friend?"
OR
Find a very cute and nice guy and introduce him to her. She should fall in love with him.
2006-06-20 11:19:48 · answer #1 · answered by DBSK LOVER! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be there for her when she needs a shoulder to cry on. There are times when we do not listen to reason and we get hurt that is when you can prove you are a true friend when you are there to help her pick up the pieces.
If you really think she may be in danger then perhaps you should talk to an adult in her life and have them intervene this only if he is abusive to her and or is doing things that are hurting her and poses a danger to her life.
2006-06-20 11:21:39 · answer #2 · answered by Nonpub Mian L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... it happens.. ppl ditch their friends for ***-holes all the time.... it all depends on how much u love her as a friend... do u love her enough to wait till she realizes what he's really made of?!!
If you have to THINK to answer that question then um surprised you call her ur best friend!!
I dont mean to be harsh on you, but try to reconciliate between her and her other friends even if behind her back... or tell them to back off till she's *human* again...
She'll appreciate it for the rest of her lyfe!
2006-06-07 11:53:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave your friend
why are you bothered if she likes him
are you jealous of her and want the guy to yourself
if you really were her friend you would let her be happy
also if you dont like the guy then that is your prob not hers
dont make her unhappy
2006-06-15 16:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by prlnr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her learn on her own. She will realize you were right just be her friend when she comes crying back.
2006-06-20 05:53:40 · answer #5 · answered by Ms.Green2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be her friend hang out with her other friends OR tell her and if she doesn't care then tell her that you don't want to hang out with him
2006-06-07 11:36:49 · answer #6 · answered by OuT 46378 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being her friend. Once she realizes she's alienated everyone around her because of this jerk, she'll come around.
2006-06-07 11:39:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let your friend know that she is doing this and if she does not admit it or dose not listen u should not have to put up with that!
2006-06-07 11:40:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch her and see if she changes
2006-06-17 16:48:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her shes stupid and needs to think better
2006-06-17 16:22:34 · answer #10 · answered by Staysia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋