2006-06-07 11:22:39 · 10 answers · asked by butterflyB 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Lets look at your question objectively.
"Would it be safe to say that every man has or will eventually cheat on his lover?"
You are basically asking if men can be trusted. I have the feeling you are asking this question because you are insecure with a man or because you are looking back on past experience. Lets put your feelings and past experiences aside for the moment.
Men are human beings too. Being a man I can say that I have feelings and thoughts that can be influenced and manipulated just like any other person in this world. How you treat your man, how you keep him interested in you, and how you react to his actions is half of the equation. The other half depends on his moral values, discipline, and level of commitment to you.
In this world there's an infinite number factors that could influence a man's actions. I have cheated on my girlfriends many times in my life, but I've recently come to terms with these issues in my life and I can honestly say that I will no longer continue my ways of infidelity. Reflecting on my past experiences I can tell you that I cheated for a many number of reasons. I can say that in my relationship I cheated because I was unhappy at the moment, because I could not control my sexual urges, because I wanted revenge, or simply because I thought I wouldn't get caught.
I am not against religion, but I can say that in this world we have choices. It's not all God's will. People make choices for many different reasons. We can't control others, but we can control our own actions. And our own actions (like the way we treat our partners) can influence the way they treat us. Hope I've helped
2006-06-07 11:38:02 · answer #1 · answered by NeverLoose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put it this way: many of the guys I have dated and my ex husband all cheated on me--they believed it was their right!! But, I have also had a few guys, especially the guy I am with now, that believe that cheating is NOT ok, that it is morally wrong, and that have much more respect for themselves and their women than to cheat on them. My current boyfriend is like me: doesn't believe in cheating AT ALL, no matter what the circumstances are.
2006-06-07 11:38:17 · answer #2 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love based on GOD last for ever, u can read this book "Boy meets girl"
Which talks about the story of how the auther met and married his wife, Shannon. Where Harris's first book encouraged readers to throw off modern ideas of romantic fixation, Boy Meets Girl goes to the next level and urges single Christian men and women to pursue courtship, and ultimately marriage, thoughtfully and prayerfully. Knowing that many readers will balk at the idea of premeditated courtship, Harris insists that dating should not be emotional recreation but rather a careful decision rooted in obedience to God. While the anecdotes used to reveal true-to-life scenarios about dating pitfalls are somewhat elementary (and geared to those in their 20s), Harris succeeds in hammering home the point that obedience to God's word, selfless love, community, purity, and satisfaction in God are the most important aspect of any relationship. The last section of the book is particularly practical, discussing forgiveness of past sexual sin, questions to ask before tying the knot, and how an understanding of our sinful nature can lead to conflict resolution. For Harris's mere twentysomething years of life experience, his maturity and devotion to God are sincere evidence that he has indeed practiced what he has preached, resulting in a passionate relationship with the love of his life. --Jill Heatherly
2006-06-07 11:25:45 · answer #3 · answered by raflawy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as safely as u can say tat every woman has or will eventually cheat on her lover !
2006-06-07 20:26:47 · answer #4 · answered by pembanboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because then that would make me an innocent bystander to the assumption. I believe in treating others the way you want to be treated....I don't want to be cheated on so naturally I won't cheat.....IN ANY WAY!!!!!!!!!!! Besides I have to admit that having sex with too many people in these times is just like playing Russian roulette..............you get me?
2006-06-07 11:44:02 · answer #5 · answered by JusChillin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, where did you get that stupid idea? Not all men are cheaters. God I hate being lumped in with a group. I guess it would be safe to say that all women will get fat once married.
2006-06-07 11:29:14 · answer #6 · answered by clev 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your grammar isn't that solid, at first. 2nd, adult adult males cheat with the aid of fact there's a void interior the dating and often times the different individual has to take their share of the blame. Al difficult each now and then adult adult males cheat basically with the aid of fact they are finished pigs.
2016-10-30 09:19:24 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.. i don't agree. But I believe it is around 63% of men cheat on their wives... I once read that in divorce statistics.
2006-06-07 11:26:37 · answer #8 · answered by Cupid 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no....not all men are lieling pieces of crap and not all men cheat on their g/f....or wife or whatever. some men still believe it's ok to be with just one woman
2006-06-07 11:26:29 · answer #9 · answered by raylie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Not all men are that slimy. There actually are men out there with integrity.
2006-06-07 11:26:24 · answer #10 · answered by Julie B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋