he broke up with me a couple of weeks ago because of a misunderstanding...i explained everything to him, and cleared the misunderstanding, and he did his part and explained everything to me.
After all that, i asked him if we could discuss our issues and give it a second chance. He sweetly rejected, and told me to move on...I got the idea, but i know he was still mad..(he also has issues grieving over his parents). Anyhow, i stayed away, and didn't contact him any more.
Yesterday, i woke up to find a message from him saying "good morning, how are things, i hope you're fine". I answered back telling him i'm fine.
What is that...i really don't understand men. I know he's passing through very hard times right now, but this is very confusing....
If you guys think that there might be a chance for us again, please let me know, and state why....Thank u...
And to all those who are gonna say get over it...thanks but not quiet the answer i'm looking for..thanx in advance u guys....
2006-06-07 10:29:22 · 7 answers · asked by xqueenyx 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I'd try not to call him or look for him for some time. Let him call you again and listen to what he has to say. I guess if you keep distance he'll miss you. Good luck.
2006-06-07 10:45:18 · answer #1 · answered by funtooabc 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
The issues that started all this might be important to give you an answer but I would have to say that maybe he just needs a friend to go trough this hard time and you are misinterpreting his intentions; make sure you want him back and if so then talk to him and tell him you want a second chance. He either come back or make clear what he wants from you.
2006-06-07 10:39:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with dawg, give the guy his space because he is still working on his "stuff" issues. Grieving over a loved one, and balancing a relationship is tough, but the bottom line is if there in zero communication in a relationship; where you cannot openly and really talk about what's going on, then realistically you have to move on.
2006-06-07 10:42:09 · answer #3 · answered by hernandeza03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know what answer you are looking for then you aren't confused. It sounds to me like you still want to be with him. You need to ask him straight up why he left you a message. If he doesn't want to be with you, then it would be easier for you to move on if he doesn't lead you on or give you false hope.
2006-06-07 10:37:53 · answer #4 · answered by keri gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he just needed some time. If you have moved on then keep moving. If you want to see him again it sounds like the ball is in your court.
2006-06-07 10:38:40 · answer #5 · answered by nonobadpony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That guy has issues, it might be best if you lighten things up for awhile, give him space and live your own life
2006-06-07 10:34:01 · answer #6 · answered by redtinydawg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's ready for the kill , go get him !
2006-06-10 02:46:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋