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if you are 14 like you say you are DONT you are too young you are searching for boys on yahoo.

dont have sex
you will regret it and your virginity is not soemthing you can get back

wait until you are older and in a mature realtionshipn

AND IN LOVE

2006-06-07 10:28:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If you think you are old enough for other mature decisions that could go along with it, then go ahead. The decisions I'm talking about are raising a child on your own if the boyfriend leaves you when he finds out you're pregnant. Can you find a job that pays enough to raise a baby on your own? Can you find a place to live if your parents make you move out? Can you go through with an abortion if your parents want you to? If you are on birth control, it is important to know that no birth control is 100% safe. If you can be positively sure you can handle the situations that go along with having sex, then I say go ahead. But just think about why so many adults say it's best to wait till you are older before having sex. Adults have seen too many kids' lives get ruined because of stupid mistakes. Your life will definitely change if you get pregnant. Have you thought about what you would do if you have sex and then your boyfriend decides he wants to date other girls? Statistically, most high school romances do not last. Also, one out of 2 marriages end in divorce. These are the kinds of mature decisions you may have to make just by having sex one time. It only takes one time to get pregnant.

2006-06-10 11:56:04 · answer #2 · answered by morning2sleep 2 · 0 0

That is your decision, but if you are asking for advice about, you probably aren't ready. It's something you can NEVER undo, so you must be certain. Are you planning to stay with this guy? Is he graduating and going to another state for school? Don't be in too much of a rush, as most teens today are. It's better to wait,and trust me, once you are married, you will wish you had saved yourself for your husband if you don't.

2006-06-07 10:29:18 · answer #3 · answered by advicemom 4 · 0 0

U just sad u were 14 and was looking for a 14yr old boy so why are u even thinking about having sex with anybody no u should not save ur self cause u never know he may not be good

2006-06-07 10:29:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous16 2 · 0 0

No. There are a multitude of consequences that can come from having sex. From the question I say there is a lot of response ability that neither one of you are ready for so wait until you can cover all of the negative that may arise and all the cost that may occur. so for now just say no.

2006-06-07 10:35:42 · answer #5 · answered by kilroymaster 7 · 0 0

No one could make that decision for you, only you two can.
If you are under the age of consent, I would wait however. If you both are at the age of consent, then just make sure you use protection so you don't get an un-wanted pregnancy, or and STD's. Don't rely on him to provide it, bring your own.

2006-06-07 10:31:04 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0 0

NO. Having sex just because you "want to" is the worst reason in the world. What about love, what about committment, what are you going to do with the rest of your life? What's the rush?

2006-06-07 10:28:07 · answer #7 · answered by wild1handy 3 · 0 0

Girl i don't think that you should go all the way because of experiences that my friends have gone through they went all the way when it was her first and the next day everyone knew about him doing it so don't......

2006-06-07 10:33:55 · answer #8 · answered by Soly 1 · 0 0

If you have to ask, the answer is no. Grow up. I want to quit working and stay home to watch TV all day, that doesn't mean I should. I have to think of the consequences.

2006-06-07 10:34:47 · answer #9 · answered by tobi 4 · 0 0

I'm not saying yes or no, but i think you need to wait a little longer. have you checked on the consequences and the positives.

2006-06-07 10:29:13 · answer #10 · answered by phleb stud 1 · 0 0

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