Hey iam a VIRGIN and about to be 18 and i was wondering?

Question

I was just wondering about how other peoples first time was? Was it with the right person? Did it hurt ?Were you scared? Did you regret it? Did you feel dirty afterwards I was just wanting to know how other peoples experience was?

Answer 1

I was 17 when I made the decision to have sex. I was very comfortable with my boyfriend of the time and had thought about my feelings about it before we were in the relationship so I knew I was mature enough to handle it. It did not hurt for me and I was just a little nervous because it was something new and as with any new thing you don't 100% know what to expect. I have never regretted it and have never felt dirty about having sex. It all comes back to doing what's right for you. If you are just doing it from pressure, don't know if it's the right guy, are to scared or think you may feel dirty, than by all means wait until things feel comfortable for you.

Answer 2

I was eighteen and a half during my first time. It was with my fiance who treats me amazingly. It was a very special night, being our one year anniversary and all. It didnt hurt a lot, but it did streach things. No real pain but both of us were really relaxed when we did it. A lot of fore play. We were not really scared, a little nervous because we were both virgins but we knew it was the right person and the right time. THere were no regrets, and no dirty feeling afterwards, just some good clean multiple hours of cuddling and feeling the love

Answer 3

Stay pure
Yes it was one of my biggest regrets since I met my Husband only 5 yrs after

Answer 4

for me?its not good!im 22 and still if i can turn back time i would'nt hesitate..im 18 when i had my first!!!i had a bf that time..and i thought hes the one for me!!so i gave in!i thought after that would be different..but its all wrong..i felt stupid for giving my virginity to him!!!and also after that hes so cold..before he was telling me a lot of b***s*** u know..like im going to marry you!!and so forth!!so if i were you save it!!!!besides sex is not that important..making love to the right person is the most wonderful thing!!

Answer 5

i lost mine when i was 18 i felt ready i wasnt scared it was with the right person . you should feel very comfortable with this person it did kinda hurt for me in the beging but now it is great i

Answer 6

WOW OK SO I WAS A TOTALLY DIFFERENT AGE THEN EVERYBODY ELSE.. WETHER ANYONE BELIEVES IT OR NOT THE FIRST TIME I DID IT I WAS IN LOVE I REALY WAS I DIDNT EVERN THINK ABOUT IT IT JUST HAPPENED ONE NIGHT AND I DONT REGTRET IT AT ALL... I WAS 15 YES 15 I KNOW I KNOW BUT THINGS HAPPEN PEOPLE MAKE CHOICES.... EVERYONES DIFFERENT BUT IT DIDNT HURT ME AT ALL A LITTLE UNCOMFORTABLE FOR ABOUT A MINUTE BUT THATS ALL AND IT WAS HIS FIRST TIME TOO HER WAS 17 SO YEAH...

Answer 7

do you like a guy who needs to have intercourse with you with the aid of fact which you're typical for having intercourse or a guy who respects you for being a virgin and is prepared to look ahead to the time to be stunning for you? bear in mind - its your existence and your physique. Be on top of issues and don't enable everybody enable you be responsive to what's stunning or incorrect for you.

Answer 8

well it kinda hutrs but u have to di it with someone u care about that u trust that will be gentle with my 1st time i regret losing my v because it was jus sum boi i thiught was cute so i lost it 2 him yea it was stupid but to help u make sure its wit sum 1 u kare about n trust.

Answer 9

Hey hold out.... I was a virgin till 19..... had a child at 30.... be intelligent and succeed...

Answer 10

You should stay a virgin until marriage. Whaen u do that ten it would be better. No guilt