Why dont people like me?

Question

when they first meet me there all intersted in me, but when time passes they dont like me anymore.

Answer 1

People don't like you?
They are first interested, so you must be an interesting person. Yet, why would the not like you after some time?

Her some guesses why this could be:

1) The person drops his/her self-assurance after some time, thinks deep within, "Nobody likes me, they will drop me." This may be based on a real "drop" experience, if someone had been dropped as a baby.

2) The person gets arrogant, plays know it all and has to prove him/herself right.

3) The person is egotistic and talks mainly about self.

4) The person is condescending, and puts others down in teasing or jokes or statements.

5) The person has a bad body odor from prescriptions, drugs or food. Insufficient chewing may cause the food to rot in the stomach, make the saliva smell bad and thus cause bad breath. Papaya enzymes/peppermint and better chewing may help the problem.

The question is, how do people get to like a person?

Here some guesses:

1) The person is self-assured, does not fish for compliments all the time. The Bio*Chakra Light MeditationTM may help to solve the problem.

2) The person is humble, an may not always correct others, even when they are wrong, but let them have the say and the show now and then.

3) The person lets others talk and is a good listener. The person gives sincere suggestions when ask for.

4) The person is understanding of others' shortcomings and problems and supports the others in word and action if proper. S/he never makes fun of others' weaknesses or problems.

5) The person is sufficiently groomed and may want to change what causes body odor.

Does anything seem familiar? You may want to be open to facts without beating yourself up. What you do not like, you can change! When the lesson is learned, the lesson goes away. Seeing the lesson, starts making it go away!

You are probably a very nice person!
Cordially, India.Magica

Answer 2

Here's a guide on how to make people like you:

Step 1: Try getting a bath, or at least a wash. Many people do not like the smell of sweat radiating off of you.

Step 2: Get a hair cut. If you're looking a tramp no one is going to want to socialise with you. Instead they may think you want to assault or mug them, all to get the money for that sweet sweet honey.

Step 3:Get some new clothes. I'm not talking about a trip to Primark, no!!! We're gonna Armarni the sh*t out of this. Men will want to be you and women will want you inside of them.

Step 4: Go t'gym. You don't see fat guys out having a good time with OTHER people. You need them rippling abs and biceps like boulders if you wanna be ahead of the game. Also its not distasteful to have a cheeky dig at the fatso's, just for old times sake.

Step 5: Be confident in yourself. Don't be afraid to go over the top with this, maybe even to go into the region of being a ****. This is all to make others aware that you are a dominant person in society and if anyone mocks you they must be destroyed verbally. If this doesn't work, well them biceps can be put to use by pulverising them.

Step 6: Don't get an education. Who needs 12 years of bull sh*t when you can spend that valuable time down the pub with the lads getting smashed. Education is just a method of brain washing which is not needed for the high ranking specimen such as yourself.

Step 7: Get rich. How you ask? Well it's quite simple really. Either you use your parents to your full advantage or, in times of dire need, go and locate yourself a loan shark. There are myths about these people, but really it is a very safe option.

Step 8: Get yourself a car. Not just any car though, oh god no! Just get your parents to get you that Ferrari you always wanted, trust me they wont mind at all!

Step 9: Get a designer flat. Again, this is were you use your resources and bring in the parents, or even the cheeky loan shark. With this package, a super model girl friend is key.

This compulsory list will not only make people like you, it will make them bow down to you. You are now a God amongst men, untouchable, and just all round awesome.
You're welcome.

Answer 3

People don't like me very much, either. I have two friends, but other than that, I get bullied, and I am hated by a lot of people.
I'm not very nice to many people, and I believe I have a reason to not be nice to some people, and I'm quite different personality wise than most people.
I think that difference is a good thing, and I celebrate the fact that I'm different.

There could be a multitude of reasons as to why people don't like you.
People like to gather information about each other, which is usually done through conversation. After that, though, they may or may not become friends with you.
That is why they "lose interest in you."
Many people don't like different people fire some stupid reason, and don't want to be friends with anyone who doesn't meet their stupid standards.
Some people actively seek out things they don't like in people so they have an "excuse" to hate them.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

don't drop that guy a line, i think he is hoping you are a guy, anyway, it's because people are probably drunk when they first meet you and are all like, man this guy, i mean girl is hott, then the beer runs through them and they puke on your chest and realize, maybe this person isn't the one for me, then they put thier pants on and leave, and you cry, but you don't need these people, just be yourself and one day you will drink a beer and meet a person and think they are totally cool and the beer will wear off and you will puke on thier chest, and you will leave them, then you will see how good this feels and you will go on a puking spree and you will find your true calling, if only you could get paid for puking in people eyes then you would be alright, bya!!

Answer 6

Do you take an interest in them as well? Ask them about themselves? Do things that are interesting to them? Friendships are give and take. Make sure that that's where you're at.

Answer 7

I like you! Don't sweat the petty stuff,you'll find a good friend one day.And the'll be lucky to know you.

Answer 8

'cause you probably seemed like somone wants to be friends with but when they get to know you...your nothing like they expected.

Answer 9

maybe it just the ppl u associate with

Answer 10

I like you. [e-mail]. Drop me a line buddy.